thing is that were both closet gays..but only us and our friends know,, i dont wanna get back to my old days...w/out him.,.he made me a better person so as i to him..
2006-09-20 19:06:25 · 8 answers · asked by sytsinner 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'm straight myself, but I have seen too many gay men suffer more when they stay in the closet. Even though I say this living in Santa Fe, New Mexico, which is probably second only to San Francisco for its acceptance of gays and lesbians in the US, I would hope you might consider just coming out, all the way. I appreciate how disconnected you may feel to the world right now losing a loved one, and that you are likely to be more at risk than a straight, but you only have this life once. Full disclosure may be a hard thing for you to do, but it could also be the best thing you ever did.
2006-09-20 19:29:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he ever coming back? Can you gp with him? well u guys can keep in touch write call aim visit each other! Or maybe you should come out the closet **** what any one has to say its your life you do as you please as longas your happy!
2006-09-20 19:12:08 · answer #2 · answered by CRAZY IN LOVE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u probably won't live normal life without him. your life will be miserable. i know mine would if the person i love leaves on a long trip
2006-09-20 19:14:04 · answer #3 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats what love and life are all about.....leaving......learn from your experience....write to him......share your lives.........but honestly and painfully somethings don't last no matter how good they are......it's life and we all go through these pains....sorry for your breakup....i know that this hurts .....i finally got to see my girl after a breakup 2 years ago.its a heartache.......then time does heal .so life isn;t that cruel.....
i'm sorry.....just breathe..and cry it's ok for a man to cry........sorry
2006-09-20 19:12:50 · answer #4 · answered by cesare214 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of you be attentive to the respond on your heart. i think of to stay with the yank guy after cheating on him could be very incorrect. despite in case you are able to not quite call it cheating in case you in no way had a sexual dating with him. i will comprehend your worry in case you are able to desire to start up procuring your self, yet it isn't any reason to stay with that guy simply by fact he will pay for each thing, which would be incorrect too. i think of you are able to desire to take a protracted examine out what you quite want and then decide for it. you would be able to finally finally end up poor yet a minimum of you would be satisfied. To me it sounds as in the journey that your dating with this American guy is one among convenience and not extremely love. i think of if he extremely enjoyed you he could prefer to dedicate to you thru having a calming sexual realtionship with you. possibly he replaced into what one calls "on the rebound", seeing you had lost your Polish pal. i think of possibly in case you have been to bypass with the Texas guy and clarify on your American guy it may be much less stressful on all people. the fact is in specific situations perplexing, even though it extremely is extra constructive than sneaking in the back of this guy's back. somebody gets harm it is for specific. communication in any dating is the main serious component. possibly you are able to desire to take a seat with the yank guy and pour your heart out to him relating to the way you sense. a minimum of this way it is going to clean the air. i desire each and every thing is going properly for you..Ciao.
2016-10-17 09:14:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Annastasia: if you feel hemay be the one, if you love him, consider going with him! ask him how he feels and talk about it with him.
good luck
2006-09-20 19:10:35 · answer #6 · answered by ladyjeansntee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as they say, go with him and continue living together
2006-09-20 19:13:06 · answer #7 · answered by ms. carpenter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with him
2006-09-20 19:08:35 · answer #8 · answered by annastasia1955ca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋