2006-09-20 18:52:27 · 18 answers · asked by smokemcalot 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Most guys think that having a sex/love partner will solve most if not all of their problems........but guess what - EVERYTHING comes with a disadvantage. For every advantage however great, it carries with it (usually hidden but its still there) an equally great disadvantage.
Find as many things as you can think of that would be a bad thing about a lovelife and focus as much as you can on them as often as possible. For instance be glad everytime you can get out and do what you want without someone complaining, threatening, pleading, nagging, crying and throwing a major hissy fit (just to name a few things) about it.
After many ex-girlfriends I am VERY glad to be alone.
2006-09-20 19:02:59 · answer #1 · answered by Shadowstorm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you crazy? How do you live WITH a love life is a better question. Do you know the statistics on divorce? If they did statistics on a love life in general - MISERY would be what you'd find.
HELLO! Relationships complicate life, make things more challenging, hamper your freedoms and steal your heart away from being the happy go lucky, easy come easy go person that you can be without one.
You really don't know what you're asking. WOW! Whether you have a love life or you don't - there are HUGE positives and negatives either way. One is not better than the other unless in your heart you long for love.
Then, it's not living without a love life that is hard. It's the desire for love you don't have. Well, what you need to do is realize that you don't have to think about it all the time and think everyone you meet might be the one. Remember the opportunities that this phase in your life brings and take advantage of them. Love comes unexpectedly in the most unusual ways. Make friends, do fun things - spend time with your relatives and their kids - before you have kids of your own and those things are few and far between.
2006-09-20 18:59:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't had a love life in a long time and I am perfectly happy with that. I enjoy being single especially now that my son is grown to a young man and is mostly with his friends. I don't have to answer to any guy and I can come and go whenever I want. I love my freedom. I just bought myself a brand new 2006 Mustang GT and I go places without having to report to any guy. I can just pick up and leave. If I'm meant to meet a good decent man than it will happen but if not I'm happy anyways.
So yes you can live without a love life! A lot of people do. They prefer that than being in a drama relationship! It's call being smart!!!
2006-09-20 19:12:41 · answer #3 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's an aw-some question.! I think I have the answer.
When your in between love life's, you have to find something in life that you like to do And divert all you're energy towards that. Think about nothing else. Which is what I need to do, but cant seem to find anything more fun then having sex. Which there in lies the problem. I'm going nutzo too, Damn you woman!!! Damn you all to Hell.!!!!! So as long as you know your going crazy, It wont be a surprise to you when you finally flip out.
2006-09-20 19:20:27 · answer #4 · answered by Eric R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finding things to do that you love, sports, volunteer work helping others can make you feel good about yourself and show you others are dealing with situations worse than being without a partner, religion, and of course family friends and pets take away loneliness!
2006-09-20 19:01:25 · answer #5 · answered by Red 7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not an easy thing to do. For most of us need creature comfort, which involves a significant other. But you just try and find ways to entertain yourself, do things for others, give a stray dog or cat a home, get a gold fish. Something that brings you joy, even if it can't put it's arms around you and give you a hug.
2006-09-20 18:58:12 · answer #6 · answered by Strawberry Pony 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me personally, ......I give all my love to Jesus......it is still hard to handle because we are human,......I am waiting for mr.right and it is not easy when you know who it is but know that he is the ready...so I put all my trust in God and give him my expectations and to God "your divine order in my life" then I feel release in my heart and my pain goes away,......this is something that I must do personally to get thru the wait period,.....God put this desire in my heart so I think her understands me when I seem a little edgy about it. Good luck my friend,.....find love everywhere you go
2006-09-20 18:58:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is achievable for just some human beings. some people who've autism can't love, yet maximum autistic human beings can. It grow to be as quickly as believed that autism is led to by potential of unloving mum and dad/caregivers. it is fake causation. If a man or woman can't love, the reason has to do with the concepts. considering the fact which you will possibly be enjoyed without loving although even those human beings may well be enjoyed. it is powerful for individuals to be enjoyed. the best wellbeing consequences from love come whilst the sensation is mutual. i think of psychological issues may well be led to by potential of not being enjoyed, yet psychological issues would reason the sensation of not being enjoyed. some psychological issues would reason human beings not comprehend that they are enjoyed. for sure psychological issues can instruct people who they are enjoyed too. whilst i grow to be depressed everyone who knew it grow to be very supportive in direction of me. I easily have knew that i grow to be so enjoyed. melancholy could additionally reason human beings to not be waiting to love others. how are you able to need others, in case you do in comparison to your self? and how are you able to settle for human beings's love, in case you do in comparison to your self? for sure melancholy and love are spiritually correct. The physique, concepts, and spirit are very properly related with one yet another. i think that a topic with one ends up in problems with the different 2. Love has to do with all 3, yet maximum individuals do not think of approximately it that way. additionally i think of that some human beings will declare that they have got in no way enjoyed, yet maximum of them have and purely have not found out what they felt grow to be love. Love is an precis theory, that many don't comprehend. yet understanding love isn't needed for loving. Love is like gravity, you do not would desire to comprehend in for it to electrify you.
2016-12-18 14:07:22 · answer #8 · answered by cordell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love yourself, you are not capable of giving someone else the love that they deserve unless you can live with, if you are not even capable of loving yourself and no one is going to love you in a healthy way if you do not love yourself you will attract some other person with negative destructive issues
2006-09-20 18:56:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like your a loser you better get to know Rosie Palmer alot better and buy some easy glide.
2006-09-20 18:56:13 · answer #10 · answered by richard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋