There's this recent assignment that I was supposed to complete for the manager and I asked my co-worker for the info last Friday. To date (4 days already), she hasn't given me anything so far!
This is despite daily reminders and now the manager's getting angry with me for not completing the assignment.
She's always prompt when it comes to requests from others so I really do not understand her attitude. I do not recall offending her in any way so I'm pretty lost here.
There was this occasion when she told me "jokingly" that she doen't like me. Help! It doesn't help that this co-worker is also the boss' pet.
Any advice?
2006-09-20 18:49:15 · 12 answers · asked by warasouth 4 in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment
My boss just dropped me an email telling me not to "bother updating it cos I've done it". This is really bad
2006-09-20 18:58:50 · update #1
There is no other way to obtain the info as she holds all the files and documents. It's very frustrating and time-consuming to have to remind her again and again.
2006-09-20 19:00:01 · update #2
She's been here for about 6 years and I've only joined in May. Guess you are right that I'm the odd one out here. I've got to bear her "you're a graduate but I'm not" remarks on a weekly basis. The thing is, I've never pulled rank on her so I really don't get it.
My understanding when I first started here is that she was hoping to be promoted to this position. Only problem is that she's not qualified and has no relevant experience.
2006-09-20 19:08:36 · update #3
I asked her for some other info this morning and that the info be sorted in 2 separate worksheets. When I opened my email earlier, I saw a whole chunk of unfiltered and unsorted information. She is really frustrating me no end. I had to ask her again to sort the information. What is wrong with this woman?
2006-09-21 15:44:19 · update #4
I asked her for some other info this morning and that the info be sorted in 2 separate worksheets. When I opened my email earlier, I saw a whole chunk of unfiltered and unsorted information. She is really frustrating me no end. I had to ask her again to sort the information. What is wrong with this woman?
2006-09-21 15:44:20 · update #5
Tell her that if she's not giving the info you need within 24 hours, you will do it yourself, by looking and messing up with her files. And tell her too that if you see anything fishy or will make her go down the drain, that you will definitely keep it for future use.
If she goes back at you and tell you that that is harrassment, tell her that you are not harrassing her, you are only "joking".
2006-09-20 18:54:01 · answer #1 · answered by Busy Diyosa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there another way you can obtain the info you need to complete the assignment? If so, it would be better for you to take that route.
Your co-worker may feel intimidated and afraid of perhaps you becoming the boss' pet so she could be purposely holding the info from you.
At this point, get the info from others (or find it yourself) and complete the assignment. There's no need to put your job on the line because of your co-worker's lack of professionalism and teamwork. Best wishes on your assignment!
2006-09-21 01:58:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't like you........ you are right! She hasn't forgotten either but you know these "facts".
What is there to do with the boss' pet? :) You may be the "odd person out" in this triangled relationship & in this company??
A few questions: How long has the "pet" been at the company? And you at the company?
Your relationship with the boss: is it one where you can talk to frankly with her? and with your co worker? Did you take someone's position in the company recently?
Can you speak with a wise person in the company that see the whole situation of what's going on?
Good luck! I hope the project gets done satisfactorily & that you are able to be in decent contact with your boss & co worker.
I hear your frustration. Hang in there! :-)
2006-09-21 02:04:05 · answer #3 · answered by ThomasR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Document your first request in e-mail.
After a day or so forward the first request to her, and CC your boss requesting the information again.
After a day, forward the second request and CC your boss asking for the information again.......
Finally, forward the copy of the third request to your BOSS, CC the co-worker, asking for your bosses help.
You will only have to do this one time, I promise.
2006-09-21 01:59:18 · answer #4 · answered by hoodoowoman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
pretty much sounds like she is envy of you. i would go straight to the boss and ask what was needed for the assignment and not depend on the coworker, apparently you already learned that she is not gonna do anything in your favor but to try and get you fired. so from here on out get it straight from the horses mouth and continue to be ok with her cordial but feed with a long handled spoon and pray for her her envy is gonna cost her a lot of pain in the end. that was not a joke she was being honest with you
2006-09-21 01:54:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are using Outlook in your office, it's best to send her mail stating an exact hour that you need the data, and don't forget to use Flag for follow-up and set an alarm of 15mins. interval near the deadline.
Don't mind her about the promotion. It is not for you to decide. The boss will surely know if she deserves it in time...
2006-09-21 03:57:16 · answer #6 · answered by Sheepish TinTin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your co worker is doing it on purpose so you can get in trouble tell your boss to give you the info not her cause she dont give it to you and see what happens .she's jealous of you doing a better job then her .
2006-09-25 00:22:35 · answer #7 · answered by BIGL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the manager that your co-worker doesn't give yet the info you need. maybe when he finds out, he will talk directly to this co-worker of yours to give the details you are looking for
2006-09-21 02:02:14 · answer #8 · answered by ms. carpenter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have found another source for the information. She isn't joking. She has singled you out. Keep on your toes and be aware of your surroundings.
2006-09-21 02:05:45 · answer #9 · answered by kitty fresh & hissin' crew 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Document all your requests and all her "forgetfulness." Put things in writing. Take it to your boss if it keeps happening.
2006-09-21 01:52:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋