I was going out with my ex for 3 years we had a pretty good relationship sometimes on and off but otherwise good. We moved in together for a couple months than I moved out in january 2006. We were still somewhat together and happy. I started a new job and only talked to her a couple times a week. One day I called her and no answer no call back. I didint think it was anything. A month goes by I call a couple more times, e-mail nothing. She moves out of her apartment and quits her job. I email her sister and friend and they wont talk to me. She takes me off her myspace and puts her profile on private. I read a comment on her ex boyfriends myspace seems like she moved in with him. now its about 5 months later and still havent heard from her. I stopped calling a while ago I gave up but it eats me up inside. I just wanna know what really happened. Is there anything I can do. Ladies what do you think?
2006-09-20 18:46:45 · 8 answers · asked by tdoby3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I have moved on I know its over I just want to know what happened is that so wrong?
2006-09-20 18:52:30 · update #1
its kinda messed up dont i atleast deserve an explanation
2006-09-20 18:54:30 · update #2
She moved on... I think there are problems between 2 of u long long time ago yet u didn't realise or talked about them with her. She has no 1 to talk to... So she found a better guy and she moved on.
U can do nothing really. Maybe she wanted to break up yet bear not to hurt u, so she said "goodbye" without saying it. U should be able to understand now.
This is what happened.
2006-09-20 18:53:10 · answer #1 · answered by a V a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decide that you are going to move on... you say you have - but so far you haven't!!! What? Phone calls... emails... obsessing... expending your precious energy and emotions on someone who isn't worthy of your love.
There are social groups you can get involved in to alleviate your loneliness... like hobbies... courses... clubs,... church groups have weekly meetings with age groups so you associate and relate to people in your peers. I found so many great friends at prayer groups, and different church functions. Friends, and new contacts are what you need right now - not another girlfriend. You need to heal from this past break up and sort out the mistakes you made too. The Lord can help you if you turn to Him and pray, He'll help you find your way. There are prayer websites that you can go to and post your prayer request..See if you can get yourself a bible. Finding a counselor... or therapist to get through your heartache and talk your issues over can be the key to emotional freedom. I pray you find your way. Bless you.
2006-09-20 19:12:57 · answer #2 · answered by Alice In Wonderland 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is not really anything you can do. You can email her but if she doesnt want to talk to you then she doesnt. Something must have happened. It doesnt sound like your relationship was to solid. I mean - it couldnt be working out to much if you moved out. You probably should just move on.
2006-09-20 18:50:44 · answer #3 · answered by sassysharli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is something you can do you can move on. some people are cowards when it comes to the truth im sure she just doesnt want to admit that shes with him now, probally because of the way she did it and for the shame of breaking your heart. she doesnt realize shes hurting you more this way. just remember he was her EX before for a reason. and he probally will be again. good luck to you
2006-09-20 18:55:33 · answer #4 · answered by xx4real4lifexx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she moved on and doesnt want anything to do with u
2006-09-20 18:52:29 · answer #5 · answered by sangwhich 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time get a new girl friend.
2006-09-20 18:52:09 · answer #6 · answered by Mojo Seeker Of Knowlege 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been dumped?
2006-09-20 18:50:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on!!!
2006-09-20 19:00:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋