I love my wife very much, but now she is openly having men stay over. I know Ishould leave but I love her .
When the guy leaves the next morning she tells me everything.-No I dont join in ,I tried she just laughed at me.
You thought you had problems
2006-09-20 18:46:34 · 22 answers · asked by wimpie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Saddely she has no respect for you or herself. Please you DO NOT deserve this see a counselor and plan your escape Many churches offer counseling and your insurance will also cover it. Life is too short to live with someone that is so openly disrespectful. Believe me it is not you it is HER. Good luck and find some group to join to spend your time doing positive things, become a better person because she is obviously bringing you down, and if you have to move out of the area then do it. I wish you all the best. =)
2006-09-20 19:01:54 · answer #1 · answered by whattheheck 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I thought when you got married your minister said let no man put assunder. I believe by bringing a third party in the relationship is a sure fired way of saying I want a divorce. Maybe she thinks you will get fed up with it enough to leave on your own without her feeling that she is cowardly to much to tell you to her face. I don't know enough of the situation, but I am just throwing out a few things for you to ponder over.
2006-09-21 03:30:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have some younger prettier women come and stay with you and do not let her "join" in see how she likes it and act as if you could give a crap about what is going on in her life. Of course this is a divorce waiting to happen so you will lose her no matter which way you go. May as well toughen up and deal with what is coming!
2006-09-21 08:38:07 · answer #3 · answered by queenonymphs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically your wife has no love for you and is probably tired of telling you its over so now she has to show you she really means it. Get out and get a life. Its not good for you to be living like that. (then again the old saying goes "Only fools fall in love" ).
2006-09-21 02:17:40 · answer #4 · answered by osito 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like that is why she is doing this,she wants you to leave. you don't deserve to be treated that way. if you love her ,ask her to go to marriage counselor, if she refuses.then she may care about you,but clearly she doesn't love you like a wife should. then you should leave,once you are gone she may realize she really does love you,and maybe you can work it out. but can you really forgive and forget?
2006-09-21 02:03:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to leave her, man. You have to think of yourself for once. It's hard, I know, but she is deliberately hurting you, and that is abuse.
and to all those people slamming this man for staying with her through this, all I can say is that it takes more of a man to stay in a bad situation and try to fix it than it takes to run away.
Solidarity, my man. Good Luck.
2006-09-21 02:03:11 · answer #6 · answered by Space Case 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry folks but it does happen.I knew an older man that had his wife and younger g/f both living with him.The wife didn't care........said it was that much less she had to do for him.I myself wouldn't tolerate it.
2006-09-21 01:55:13 · answer #7 · answered by katydid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur blind man.i thot only woman accepted everything for the love of their life,but i think she's abusing!If she's sleeping with other man in ur house then wat r u waiting for?there's no time for u to wait go away u have to be strong ur a man,u'll have a much better person who'll make u forget her. u have to get out of this,she isnt made for u,dont live like a blind person.
2006-09-21 02:20:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness! I'm very surprised n puzzled. Why are u not angry at all? And u allow her to do that? Hey, she's ur wife and she does not respect u as a husband at all !!! Yes, i know u love her but she really has gone overboard! wat she did is very terrible. i'm very sori to say dat both of u are very confused people
2006-09-21 02:09:07 · answer #9 · answered by libby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do people bother posting bogus questions like this??? Dude, seriously. If this is real, be a f*cking man and leave the b*tch!!! It's that simple!!!
2006-09-21 01:50:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋