I am a 22 year old white male. I was an army brat and lived with tons of different people in different places. I am a college graduate and am a juve delinquency counselor. I need some advice though. You see, throughout most of my life, I have always related to and got along with and made friends easier with black people. Its not a conscious thing like I try to make it this way either. I have a sister who is married to a black man and they have 3 kids. She has always said she feels black inside. I kinda feel like I do too in a way. I am not that "white" either(wear jordans, got diamonds in my ears, got a fade haircut). I have always wanted to date black women but never have taken the step. I am not even into white women that much anymore. They just arent that attractive to me- on the inside or outside. I was wondering, is this normal-considering my background, etc. and are there that many black women who would date a white boy? I don't see race i just see people but the world don't
2006-09-20 18:43:50 · 7 answers · asked by Trojan8408 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Music
Just by reading your question i can tell that U are suffering from the same sickness too! however, I believe that first U should look at yr self and ask this question> Why am I living? What is the purpose? In other words, U should accept yr self as who U are. When U come to understand yr self better then U can see others not by the way U think but by who the person is. U come to understand her or him and respect that person fro who s/he is. I believe that having a mutual understand and open discussion with that person will bring a closer bond of love. Please see with your heart, reason is there to enlighten U but not to blind U. I do hope that I am helping U.
2006-09-20 19:17:12 · answer #1 · answered by pato 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the same way only I have never dated a white man before. But most of my friends are white and I get along better with them but I dont know about dating a white man. I have quite a few white male friends though. I dont think you should even worry about color at all. I mean you might want to try and date african american women or even asian or native american or hispanic german, greek, russian, etc. Who knows who you might fall in love with. I dont think color should even be brought into it. That is the problem with this world today everything is about color everything is judged by color not just of the skin but just in general as well.
2006-09-21 01:55:34 · answer #2 · answered by tysha30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all have our preferences and you've been surrounded by different people from different places, so it doesn't seem unusual. It makes you open to other things and new/different experiences. I'm positive that there are a lot of black women who are attracted to white men even though it may not seem like it. Give it a try :)
2006-09-21 01:54:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
black women aren't racist people. this i know.
white women tend to be more racist because white people are stubborn and just plain racist.
i think you're doing what comes natural to you. i think if it feels right, then you should go for it. because why be unhappy with some white woman at home that you don't even like??
it doesn't make sense..it'll only end up in divorce and pain..not to mention your $$$.
so get with a sista.
i'm not black..i'm not white.
i'm just someone who knows both.
2006-09-21 01:47:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that you said white women are not attractive on the inside makes me say.stay far far away from them/us and go for the black women please! and if they tolerate you judging ones insides and "settling" for theirs.. I hope they kick u to the curb too when they figure it out cuz ur white.... so they will be lacking in what a black man can give that u cant....... so ur thing about unattractive inside better not play out negatively with black women..they will sense it dude. I know YOU meant it as a compliment to the black women but they arent dumb..... you arent doing them any favors. and your clothes n stuff n feeling black are not BEING black, are u joking???
2006-09-21 01:49:30 · answer #5 · answered by safarlsun33 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I feel the same way. I'm not into asian women.
2006-09-21 02:20:57 · answer #6 · answered by buddhaboy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not worry about what the world thinks about what i do...it is my life and i have the right to do what i want to. and you do also
i say if you feel it do it, and be true to yourself
2006-09-21 01:47:59 · answer #7 · answered by churchonthewayseniors 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋