I came home and found my so called boyfriend in BED with another MAN. I dont think there is anything wrong with bi or gay men but this was my Boyfriend.
2006-09-20 18:29:05 · 17 answers · asked by acomodropely 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Run away and do not look back. Well if you two have sex then he is bi, if not he is gay. I really do not know what to tell you. But cheating is cheating, so he did cheat on you. Nothing else I can say about that. So do what you think is best. I would leave and move on, it is not worth this cheating crap.
2006-09-20 18:31:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, you are lucky to find it early on your own. how long you been knowing this guy? if long period of time, you should have notice the slight warning sign. but if you are into this kind of mutual relationship, just like what you said, there is nothing wrong with it. you are just wondering right now cause you are in shock, cause its your boyfriend with another man. and since you are laughing knowing the fact that its your boyfriend, you will get used to it. cause if you were really hurt, you won't be asking us questions, you know what to do.
anyway, accept the fact that he is bi or gay and have yourself check for any disease that he maybe carrying. you never know what lies under those sheets...another brokeback mountain series?
2006-09-20 18:47:19 · answer #2 · answered by salome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd drop him like a hot potato. Think of your health. Not only that, if he is your boyfriend, what is he doing in bed with ANYONE else? Don't put up with the infidelity. Find someone else. You must not know him as well as you thought if this came as a surprise. Run away, and run fast!
2006-09-20 18:34:04 · answer #3 · answered by Daphne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a man, and I am NOT a gay. I am not gay bashing either.
Homosexuality runs the highest risk of HIV/AIDS. So, if your b/f has multiple gay partners or he has had unprotected sex, it could lead to an infection. So beware!
2006-09-20 18:43:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't felt comfortable talking to him about it or even if you have, you should probably look at yourself and decide whether or not you can still be friends, because it seems that even though you can accept his sexual orientation, the shock of the discovery seems to have killed the romance for you.
2006-09-20 19:08:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheater regardless of the gender. He has a commitment with you...besides that.. It's not just his bed, it's yours too. eww... How disrespectful.
I say, cut ur losses.. tell him to have fun, and either you or him must leave.
2006-09-20 18:39:23 · answer #6 · answered by SunRise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty simple chick get a new guy. Hes gay and its that simple, you are just the chick to hide his gayness.
2006-09-20 18:33:28 · answer #7 · answered by vito c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope it become a 3 some
2006-09-20 18:47:05 · answer #8 · answered by no need to report me i did it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were just his cover, don't get involved with him, you see he likes men, leave him and find someone else.
If you don't you will be very hurt.
2006-09-20 18:32:35 · answer #9 · answered by rosem_07663 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you had to see that. But hey, at least you know now, right?
2006-09-20 18:31:24 · answer #10 · answered by Sydney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋