Well you have a new bf/gf and all of the other people you used to hang out with are now not talking to you or are made because you are spending more time with your new bf/gf trying to get to know them better?
2006-09-20 18:19:29 · 6 answers · asked by Mandy A 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Other - Arts & Humanities
trying to know something new?
2006-09-20 18:23:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The relationships you've made depend on you as you have depended on them. Some of your needs are now being met in your new relationship, but the needs you met for others in your prior relationships are now going unmet. It's normal, but you need to manage this carefully and not just let it happen, because whether a new romance lasts or not is always iffy. Friends that are friends will still be there when the bf/gf is gone if you make the effort to keep nurturing those friendships.
Even if the excitement of a new relationship is kind of overwhelming at first, don't drop your friends. If you do, and things don't work out with the romance, your friends will not forget you kicked them to the curb for the guy/gal you are now admitting was the anti-Christ, and if you can recover your friendship it will likely come with much crow-eating and trust-rebuilding.
2006-09-21 01:48:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly. Your question is under the wrong category. Secondly, that is an age old problem between old friends. That usually happen when the old friend has no bf/gf. You can't help that. But remember, those are often the friends that there to help you pick up the pieces if things fall through with your bf. So, you had better make an effort to keep in contact. Phone calls and emails are great ways to stay in touch without having to devote too much time.
2006-09-21 01:25:02 · answer #3 · answered by ihaftaknow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends may be jelouse intell they get one then they will forget about you. Try to include them with the activities you and your bf gf do and maybe when its time for the two of you to be alone your friends will understand.
2006-09-21 01:24:23 · answer #4 · answered by carbinated milk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop thinking and just start talking to them. it's not their job to fill you in on the crap you missed while you were hanging out w/ the new one.
2006-09-21 01:24:07 · answer #5 · answered by nobudE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they feel like you abandoned them
2006-09-21 01:21:19 · answer #6 · answered by Sydney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋