OK ..i like this guy from Skool very much and i know he is single and he is kinda shy ( some people told me). I like him very much and all his friend know i like him cause i ask his friend his name. We r not friend and i only friend with a few people who know him but we not in the same group and we don't have the same class but i saw him every day and i wanna talk to him and say "HI", the problem is he always with a group of his friends. I think he know i like him. What is the best way to get to know him? what kind of talk a guy like to hav with a stranger girl and not scaring him away?
2006-09-20 18:09:16 · 7 answers · asked by "u never know me" 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm not under ages ...I'm 18 and he is 17 almost 18...
2006-09-20 18:24:20 · update #1
Aww darling... :-)
First and foremost- a guy enjoys nothing more than a girl asking him out. It shows willingness to take a risk on the part of the woman and its flattering to the guy.
If you're going to send a friendship card (as one of your other respondents suggested), - spell it properly- please!
Next time you walk past him, (make sure only he can see you and that his friends aren't noticing you), flash him a flirty smile. (A suggestion from one of your other respondents- I'll get to my ideas in a moment.), said. You girls have a wonderfully entrapturing way of smiling which can and does capture we men-folks hearts.
You might try using your contacts. Pick a trusted contact to give him your number. Its in-direct and a little cowardly- but at least it circumvents the friends problem.
Otherwise wait for a prime opportunity. ie. Walking to his locker alone. Studying alone in the library etc.
If all this isn't a possibility- write your name and number with a coy note (eg. "Call me", or, "From a friend".) on a small piece of paper. Whilst he's talking to his friends, you can "accidently" bump into him and slip it into his books, pocket- whatever gives the best chance of a clean exit from the scene.
Pray he finds it before he sends his pants to the wash or his friend finds the notes in a text book.
Failing all of that. Walk up to him and his friends and insert yourself into the convosation.
The worst that could happen is that they don't want to talk to you. Next worse is that you make some new friends.
Best case scenario is that you make new friends and you make this (by the sounds of it) lovely guy your boyfriend.
Best of luck my romantic friend- drop me an email to let me know how it all goes!
The Iceman.
2006-09-20 18:28:15 · answer #1 · answered by The Iceman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be yourself. That is the most important part. Times have changed and it is okay to go after a guy yourself. So if you see a guy you really like, why not ask him out. It really is okay to do it that way now. So do not be shy, just get yourself a boy friend and it will get easier for the next time you need to find yourself one.
2006-09-20 18:11:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe, you are under age and he is afraid getting in trouble with you. You have to wait til you are 18 to make a move on a boy.
2006-09-20 18:17:26 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you strategies-set them being friendly, crack some jokes that are extremely humorous and not lame. the only thank you to inform if she has a boyfriend with out checking facebook is with the aid of asking them To MMA -- ladies additionally do in comparison to men that are ***** for no reason in any respect.
2016-10-15 06:03:34 · answer #4 · answered by bassage 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you see him, smile at him to let him know you are looking at him. when you say hello, compliemt on something you like bout him, something little. then when you start talking, start off asking bout school. common ground, then move on to asking him question bout himself to start the small talk. stuff like what music he like. mentioned you just saw a movie, has he seen it? what movies does he like? what does he like to do out of school? does he like any sports? mention something you saw on tv, did he see it? what does he like to watch.
2006-09-20 18:17:59 · answer #5 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him a friendship card.
2006-09-20 18:12:29 · answer #6 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try a big smile....
2006-09-20 18:12:13 · answer #7 · answered by Jan W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋