Traumas, deaths of loved ones, unemployment, etc... The most difficult time in your life. Also, how did you get through it?
2006-09-20 17:55:31 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The two hardest times in my life were being put in a hospital for depression and losing my boyfriend of two years to my best friend who he later married. (these were totally seperate events)
2006-09-20 18:17:47 · update #1
over a pirode of three year i had one sergry after another from 10-13 im 14 now almost 15 and im happily enjoying life i hope ot never go thought that i think i had 8 or 10 in todal an elissrof broken leg infections one after another a line to the heart a bunch of stuff and all because one sergry that was suppost to help me went wrong people ask me y arnt u scard do u wish it never happend? i say u cant be scard and the whole thing only made me stronger as a person people feel sory for me but there are 4 year old kids dieing of canser and i only have cp witch isnt deadly i would be happy to die tommorow noing that even though iv only live 14 years iv exspenced life u can not truly apreate life untill its been taken away form u i lost it for thee years and i died at birth for 60 seconds im a triplet born at 26 weeks iv learnd to draw form my stranths and thats shcool and riding i just try to enjoy life to the fullest and be thankfull for every day
2006-09-20 18:07:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I found out I was pregnant at the age of 20, with now degree or job. I moved out on my own and lived in an apartment with almost no money and a baby. I had no family or friends around and it was really scary. Since then, I have gone back to school, I now have my degree and a great job, a house, and a car. I was married two years ago and recently had a new baby. I look back now and realize that these past 4 years have been really hard but knowing that I was doing what was best for my child got me through it.
2006-09-20 18:00:30 · answer #2 · answered by lili 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My hardest time was high school. The kids there are so immature and superficial. If you are not one of them, you are just miserable. My problem was that I wanted to be popular and cool, but I just didn't have the personality for it. Those people drove me nuts. I'm prettier than average and felt pressure to be popular, stylish, cool, etc., when I really was just a really nice, dorky girl inside. Looking back, I wish I would've just tried to make friends with the good people in school, the "dorks." They're the best people. Instead, I wasted a lot of lonely time wishing I was someone I wasn't. I know better now. I realized that I was being just what I hated...snobby.
2006-09-20 18:05:09 · answer #3 · answered by zosoo7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont hate me but I gave my child to my aunt because I knew at the time I was not in the right spot in my life to have kids, I dont believe in abortion, and my aunt had been trying for 10 years to have a child using invetro and stuff like that. She was there for me most of my pregnancy, and was there for me and still is in contact with me now. But the worst and lowest part of my life was sitting in that hospital bed after delivering the baby and knowing there was no way I could take it home with me. I didnt want to let go, but the most logical thing was to have the baby with my aunt. I still am sad sometimes because I see my daughter and see how much she has grown, I see my other daughters in her when I look at her. I get thrue it knowing that I made a good decision, and I am a good mother now because I had my other children at appropriate times. I am ok with it because the daughter I let my aunt have is living a wonderful life, and she is spoiled. I know if I had her with me, my children and I would be without a lot of things, and I wouldnt do that to any of them.
2006-09-20 18:02:09 · answer #4 · answered by LadyRaven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my Ex Fiance of 6 years dumped me over an email while I was holidaying around europe, ruined the rest of my trip.
Than found out a week later, he had left me for another woman.,. It took years to get over that, as he was my first love.
He is now married with 2 kids to the woman he left me for.
And also Now, as I am trying to decide if I should leave my boyfriend or not.. Its a very difficult decision.
2006-09-20 18:10:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was the oldest of 8, raised on a farm, got up before the chickens & abused badly at times...had to watch my lil brothers & sisters abused too, my daddy said I'd be a ditch digger & my momma became a drug addict, but THE hardest thing I ever had to face, was my marriage of 19 yrs fall apart & be completely powerless to stop it. my divorce was the hardest thing I've ever dealt with and I don't feel I'll ever really get over it.
2006-09-20 18:03:52 · answer #6 · answered by aqualovr1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two for me also. Parenthood and break up of love relationship. The break up came first and then a few years later my child arrived. Prayer and deep thought got me through and they both hit me hard. Parenthood is great and challenging but the break up was unexpected and deeply hurtful. Surround yourself with positive people and positive things does help. Time allowed me to heal as well. It is true what they say, helping others helps you also.
2006-09-20 18:47:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I'am going through a tough time right now. 2 days ago My 2 year old pug got ran over and killed. beacuse my drunk husband left the door open. I don't know how i will ever get over this but I will take each day as it comes the best I can. I sure do miss my little clown
2006-09-20 18:03:22 · answer #8 · answered by gigi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When i was 16 was held hostage for three months by my boyfreaind and his family i was bashed every day. I was sexually abused and loocked in a room for three months i was not aloud to call my mum or any loved ones. In that three months i fell into such a deep depression where i tried 32 times to commite suciced and failed i also fell pregnatn and lost the baby becaues he bashed me that bad a bleed for two weeks and nilly died i lost all my hair due to poor nutrion and while i was loocked away i lost my pop whos last wish before he died was to see me he was like my father as all my life i never knew my dad and he raised me. When i finally excaped i was addmited to hospital for nilly 2 months and was put on all types of medecation. what made it wores for me was for 7 years i tried to have him charged and locked up for what he did to me and his fmily that on my second last court date the police sent the sepiners to the wrong police station and i missed out on my court case so it got dismissed i now have had to go before parlemant to try and get my charges re laid he stalked me for 6 years the last year he has left me alone. But out of all of this you would probebly think im a nut case but all this has showen me is how to be storng and fight in what i belive it has taken 7 long years to get my life back in the past 5 my husband has helped me out the most he is all i have and our daughter when i first started going out with my husband i told him what had happened and that i could not go outside as i had a fear of open space but he was there every foot step and every court case i would not have made it if it was not for his support i know this sounds like some story i have made up but every word is true and i still have the night mares.
2006-09-20 20:02:20 · answer #9 · answered by sweety yhi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been through so much in my life time but I truly believe it was the death of my little brother. It has taken years of prayer and thought to realize it is the ones left behind that are suffering, he is in a better place, but he was only 17. Life goes on without them but god we miss them!
2006-09-20 17:58:27 · answer #10 · answered by ladynamedjane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋