I think it is nice you are considering your dad's feelings. Just sit down and talk to him about it. Even if you don't live there, you can always come by and have dinner or make it for him and bring it.
Honestly though I think that moving in with your man before you get married is a bad idea. Why should he buy the cow if the milk is free? If you want to get married, this will probably prolong it because your bf won't have anything to gain by proposing to you besides a wedding ceremony.
2006-09-20 18:00:50
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answered by Anonymous
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Maybe you should speak to your dad and see how he feels about you moving out. Grant it your 23 so you can do what you want but clearly you care about your fathers feelings. If i were you i'd see how he feels about it and decide on a time frame that you would move out, like say a few months. Then when you do move out maybe make some time each week to talk to him on the phone, or even have him over for dinner or something.
2006-09-21 00:54:50
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answered by Spread Peace and Love 7
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You should NOT feel bad. You are 23 and your father is expecting you to move out at some point. You've probably already stayed longer than he expected. As for your bf, after four years, if he's any type of real catch, he should be asking you to marry him, not move in with him. If you don't "know" after four years, you don't know he's the one. Maybe you should stick with your dad and go looking for a new bf!
2006-09-21 01:22:11
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answered by Anonymous
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you should ask him what does he think about it also if you guys move in together make sure you don't put your name on anything like a lease b/c within two months your going to want to kill him and this will probably break you guys up and if you do you don't want him to trash the place and you have to pay for half or anything like that or have him run the bills up in your name and you have to pay them you know what I mean so think about it and you definetly don't want to make your dad upset b/c in the end you may have to come back home and you need to make sure the option is always there we are the same age and I've been going with my b/f the same amount of time and everyday I wish I was single and I can't stand him we actually just broke up but every place we have been in it was either name on the lease and we split the utilities one in my name and one in his that way no one gets screwed ~~Good Luck and always have a back up plan with ,money stashed in case you have to leave
2006-09-21 00:56:33
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answered by p-nut butter princess 4
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Wow you sound like a great catch.
How does his other girlfriend feel about this?
Just kidding, I'm sure your dad would love some free time to bang your new mommy.
by the way, is your mom hot?
2006-09-21 00:56:53
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answered by deefrost 2
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Just tell your dad... if he doesn't understand then too bad for him... you are in love and you have a good looking future... its just time for you to move on into the next phase of your life.
2006-09-21 00:52:26
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answered by Tho Deep ught 2
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I would approach your dad and say hey dad me and whatever his name is are thinking about getting a place together. what do you think about that, pose it as if your asking his opinion or advice. that way you can get his reaction.
2006-09-21 00:56:47
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answered by xx4real4lifexx 2
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Explain to your father, tell him you love him, but you also love your boyfriend. You should at least let him talk to you, explain his worries, and just be able to talk to you. He'll hopefully understand and will let you go.
2006-09-21 00:56:46
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answered by Kamikaze 3
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juss du it! u 23, not 13 girl!
2006-09-21 00:54:05
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answered by MARY W 1
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if you been dating that long you should make it legal,,dad can still depend on you but he needs to learn to cope too
2006-09-21 00:53:23
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answered by Anonymous
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