How can I find happiness?

Question

I've been going to tough times for some reason.

I'm not in the Top 5 of my Team cuz of loses in YuGiOh as of late.
This girl I liked has a B/F
I'm poor
I'm the most hated person on this website cuz stuff I've said
My phone is cut off
My Digital Cable is cut off
I'm jobless
I don't know how to find happiness
I've been having aches in my body as of late
I'm getting really EMO about things
I hardly talk to my father (Whom I stay with)
I've been doing bad in YuGiOh
I have this pimple on my nose that's noticable
I'm not even in School
I've been making terrible decisions

What's happened that such bordens has gotten to me? What can I do? Will it be over and I go on with my life?

Sure this sounds like a Rant, but I think I need help. Any words of inspiration or advice. How can I be happy? How can I find discipline, strength, courage, and wisdom?

Answer 1

1) Love yourself a little.

2) Remember that you were the fastest spermatozoon of all.

3) Thank God as much as you can, because as long as you are breathing, you can change any situation, any.

4) Life is like a buffet, you and only you choose what to eat, how much, when, etc. so we got what we desire.

5) Picture yourself as someone successful, you are the result of your thoughts.

6) Bottom line: IS UP TO YOU, and you alone.

Answer 2

You are on the road to happiness already and you don't even know it. Now, I don't know if you are serious or not but I'm going to take this question seriously...

First, you have already written down the things that are contributing to your unhappiness. So lets go down the list and fix those things.
1. YuGiOh - take a time out, a break. You aren't in the right state of mind, your unhappy, not concentrating so how can you be at your best?
2. Maybe this girl is not the girl for you. Let's work on you first before adding to your troubles with a girl...cuz they are work!
3. Some of the happiest people are poor. But if you want money, there are only a few hundred ways of getting it. Sell something, get a job, etc.
4. I highly doubt your the most hated person...and you don't even know these people so who cares?! Are truly looking for love, respect and acceptance from people you can't even see/hear?
5 - 7. Sweetie once you get back on your feet you can turn your phone/cable back on...go out and find a job...put in those applications. You are in a funk so this will be hard but step away from the computer...or not, search on the computer for jobs in your area. You can do it!
8. Skip
9. Your body is acting up physically because you are not right emotionally. Depression can set in physically so as soon as you feel better about yourself your aches and pains will go away. Until then...take an Advil.
10. Your emotional about things because you aren't thinking straight. Do you think you should see a psych. doctor? If not, then just try to get through this on your own. Do things that lift your spirit.
11. So start talking to your father. Tell him whats up in your life. Or better yet write him a letter. Do something nice for him and in return the feeling of kindness will lift you up.
12. Refer to #1.
13. Pimples come and go. Everyone gets them. You have 2 options. a. just leave it alone and wash your face as normal and it will disappear in due time. b. pop it and risk being scarred for life unless you get all the bad pus and so on out. eww I know.
14. Are you suppose to be in school? If you already graduated high school then your alright. Even so, you can go back to school...no one is stopping you. "But money, I have none" you say. Well once you get your finances together you can put school into your budget. There are also many grants and loans out there. Research my friend.
15. Your terrible decisions are a reflection of how you have been feeling. If you realize this then you can do something about it. Just think twice.
Sweetie, this is just a phase in your life. You will get past this. We all go through it and I know life seems tough right now but there is still so much to endure. I hope this has been helpful. Go out and do something that makes you feel good with no regrets. Go out and get yourself a YuGiOh magazine!!!! Good luck!

Answer 3

OK. I don't know you, but I am assuming you really want sincere and honest answer...

Hopefully you are not on drugs and alcohol. I am not sure what you are doing all day?!

1. The real Happiness is only comes around with "INNER PEACE", not with money or having a cute girlfriend, etc.

The way to reach inner peace you have to find yourself and build your faith. By this I DO NOT mean to become religious. Rather whatever is that you believe, to build a sincere relationship through that with your Creator.

Almost in all cases, that gives you hope, and establishes the foundation of your life and beliefs.

2. It appears that you look at the ½ of the empty glass, rather than the other ½ that is full. Stop negativity and start to plan for your life.

Working and going to school are two of the necessities in life.

Who is paying your expenses now? Rent? Food? Clothing? Etc.?

Being poor is not an issue in life, if your brain works. Many have reached their highest goal by hard working, and I am sure you can do that too.

Stop being a childish, and start to set goals for you life and take action to achieve it. Then you can feel the satisfaction.

Good luck!

Answer 4

Cheer up..
First of all, you need to realize that Everyone does pass through such situations in some period of their lives, it's just you dare talking about them, some people can't do that, that's one..
The 2nd, anyone no matter how happy he looks to you, may write a list that maybe longer than yours, about what darkens their lives. But instead, those people have decided to write about what brightens their lives, this shall always make them feel alright, you need to think about it..
My grandfather who's passed few years ago always told me this: "Son, you must know what want, you have to work for what you need then you should realize you're having it as long as you kept faith in yourself".. now look at you, you do really know what you need, that's the hardest step, you want to be a happy man, well guess what, you CAN be a happy man, just don't expect happiness to come knocking your door, you have to work for it..
how? easy..
- Do the things you enjoy the most especially your hobbies.
- Enlarege your friends circle and talk to them for long.
- Don't stay at home doing nothing for a long time, this stimulates
your mind to start thinking about the bull you wrote about.
- Imagine if you were living a much worse situations, think of the
worst thing that may ever happen to you, then realize how good
it feels to be just as you are.

Look, by posting that question, you've proved for everyone that you do NOT believe in failure, too simply 'cuz you're not a loser, think of your qualities, and see how special you are.. and stop thinking about silly pimples on your nose, what if you had an accident and they decided to cut off your whole nose? what would u do then? you'd wish for a thousand pimples..
happy men think that way...

Answer 5

Happiness cannot be found like a dime on the sidewalk. Nor can discipline, strength, courage or wisdom. With the exception of wisdom these items must be taught to you, or self taught, and practiced for a lifetime. People choose how they want to be. You are indeed making poor choices. You have chosen to be burdened instead of challenged. You have chosen to be weak instead of strong by not facing your adversity. You have chosen to be a victim, a blameless child, instead of a responsible adult. You have chosen to be poor by not educating yourself. Wisdom is something that is attained by most only after a lifetime of dealing with aches, father's, pimples, etc. It is an irony of life that we are wisest only as we near the age of death.

Answer 6

Happiness can never be bought. Happiness comes by deciding to be happy. It also comes when you've done what is right in the sight of the Lord, and happiness comes when you've helped others and have done the one thing you always wanted to do in life, like go into your career.

Answer 7

Find security and significance in your life. Find meaning and wisdom. I find this in my own life through faith in Jesus Christ. It's always good to focus on something bigger than yourself.

Don't feel that because you have some areas that are not great at the moment that you are not a person who is very important to God and just as He made you to be. Don't be too hard on yourself. Have hope for the future and look to things that are lasting.

Answer 8

hey what can i say but life is a b....

get a grip man. there must be something positive in your life, like you r still alive and healthy (sort of) whereas other people are sick, dying, etc... believe me there are worse people than you.

Just look for this 1 positive thing in your life and hang on to it, when your thinking positively it will reflect on you and your life will change.

Good luck

Answer 9

Find a passion. IF you are religous, pray. Seek advice from friends. and support from friends. work things out with your dad. keep your head up. find a job, even if it is just an inbetween kind of job. Do things that make you happy.

BUT DONT GIVE UP! and DONT DO ANYTHING STUPID!

Answer 10

Positive thinking should do the job.
Think of the situation that is worse-off than yours.

Take a step back and be glad it's not you.