meet them at there house?
I would like to see the girls repsonses...as well as the guys on wanting the girl to come to there place?
I know to meet someone in a lit...public area.....just want your opinions on the situation....
No need to be hateful, rude or leave crude comments...when u do...only thing your doing is making your self looks stupid....not me!
2006-09-20 17:43:49 · 25 answers · asked by Sugar_Plumzz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I will prefer to have the date to be done in a lit place to avoid any trouble or advantage taken on me. Many people prefer to have it done in a dark area but why, reason, many things can be done in the dark. But if i wish to know a person and wish to understand her more, i would prefer it to be in bright place.I will be able to look at her expressions if i am too much or whether i am boring her. Never bring her to my place because, you know guys, all that comes into their mind, is bang and bang. I've been through this situation before with my classmate who likes me alot, but it was different, she told me she wants to take a bath and i was there all alone awiting for her to come back and when she did, she just took the towel off which she was wearing and what happened? Nothing ! I got nervous and i went to the door but if that kind of situation happens now, i will sit infront of her & admire her & definately ask her why is she doing this and what is she expecting from me? So, don't get trapped in concealed areas, or in dark areas where you won't be able to turn for help if you require. Just be careful. There are many cautious steps that you can take. Bring along someone whom you can trust with you and see his expression, when he turns up. If he is a nce guy who wants to know you, he will probably say, hey! let's go for a show together or for dinner. Try this method, it's effective.
2006-09-20 18:13:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my point of view, NEVER show someone where you live on a first date! Why?? What if you decide you don't want to see them anymore and they have other plans and don't know how to take no for a answer??....As far as a guy wanting to meet you at his place on a first date well he is either desperate, a pig or does not have a vehicle. Both places are very risky and not worth taking a chance!!!!
2006-09-20 17:51:30 · answer #2 · answered by queenonymphs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If we didn't know each other that well, like a blind date or we've only met one or two times before (party, bar, club, etc) then I would rather meet him at the place for safety, and an easy exit if things go bad. I don't want strange men knowing where I live, too dangerous.
If I knew him fairly well from several meetings, then I would prefer him to pick me up at my house. If I had several chances to talk to him before the date, then I would know that I could trust him at least a little, and I wouldn't be worried about a potential slime sitting across from me at dinner. So it would show manners and respect for him to pick me up instead of me driving to meet him.
2006-09-20 17:49:35 · answer #3 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a good idea to invite strangers to your house nor is it a good idea to enter a strangers house. It's dangerous enough meeting strangers at outside locations. I would in fact recommend a few nice phone conversations before even considering meeting someone. Never meet with a person who can't put words together properly.
2006-09-20 17:48:11 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for me on the first date it's better to do it outside. they ( 2 people) can can just meet in one place or the guy will picked the girl in girl's house. It's so romantic to choose a place that nobody from the both of you even seen the place. At your first date it must be romantic, and memorable to the both of you that when you remember that place there's only one person you can remember.
2006-09-20 17:52:43 · answer #5 · answered by carla911 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man or woman, meet in a public place until you see if you are going to like each other. I've had 2 bad experiences letting the guy pick me up at home.
2006-09-20 17:53:35 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely hell freekin' no. If he wants a date, we'll meet in a public place of he can pick me up. Contrarily wise, if he picks you up, then he knows where you live and if the date is a bust to you, he may still show up and around. Best meet him in a public spot!
2006-09-20 17:45:47 · answer #7 · answered by Jen-Jen 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My first date with my hubby...had not met him before the 1st date...he picked me up at my house. We spent the whole day together and ended up back at his place that night. Might not have been the smartest way to meet, but I did my research on him before we went out.
2006-09-20 17:47:49 · answer #8 · answered by cowgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you liked the guy, knew and trusted the guy and you knew he didnt have a car or something like that then meet him at his house. But if you are not familiar with this guy n he has a car no. Meet him somewhere public, if he can't do that then he is not worth your time.
2006-09-20 17:56:28 · answer #9 · answered by LadyRaven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...your first date should not be at a private residence. It is far too dangerous and leaves you far too vulnerable...
besides, the guy will know he can have his way with you if you were so easy to go to the home of a stranger.
2006-09-20 17:50:19 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋