2006-09-20 17:17:03 · 21 answers · asked by firecracker 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes most defiantly it is, and that is the hardest thing to deal with and you can't talk about to often because people will judge you. So yes it is possible .
2006-09-20 17:28:36 · answer #1 · answered by brigette b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but I believe that there are different levels of love.
I truly love my wife and I will be with her for the rest of my life.
I had a very serious relationship (12 years) with an old girlfriend (long before I met my wife). I will always love this girl and sometimes I hope that someone out their is taking good care of her.
Do, I think about her much? No, it wouldn't be right and besides I've committed 100% of my love to my wife.
The only reason I never married the girlfriend was, there were too many incompatibility issues and even though I truly loved her and always will, it wouldn't have been practical.
For instance, my wife is the exact type of mother I wanted for my children, the old girlfriend would have been a great mother, but not by my ideal definition.
So, even though it was a true love, I've put it into the history books and moved on to an equal love that makes much more sense.
You certainly can lust for multiple people at any given time, but love would be a much rarer circumstance.
I don't know if this was the type of response you were looking for, but this is what I thought of when I read your question.
2006-09-21 00:31:59 · answer #2 · answered by De Expert 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!! Don't let anyone tell you how you can and can't feel. Or who you can love or who you can't love. A real preson can love two people at the same time, the only thing is you have to find the line of love in your hart and soul. And try with all your hart to findout the different kind of love you have for them. I can't tell you how (sorry) only you know the answer. You may not get the answer that you what but if you truely do love them both it will come to you sooner than you thing.HANG IN THERE YOU ARE NOT ALONE.
2006-09-21 00:30:28 · answer #3 · answered by Cissey V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible to love two people at the same time but its not possible to be "IN LOVE" with two people at the same time when your in love you want to spend all your time with that person , and the thought of someone else should not enter your mind. you just have to know what real love is thats all..good luck
2006-09-21 00:24:55 · answer #4 · answered by xx4real4lifexx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..I think if you can love 2 people at different times in your life, then yes you can love them at the same time....It is a very hard place to be in and hurtful to all involved ..That is if you are honest with them both...As hard as it is, choose 1 and let the other live thier life...hopefully a happy one.
2006-09-21 00:21:28 · answer #5 · answered by Jan W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not possible to be in love with two people at the same time but yes it is possible to think your in love with both at the same time.
2006-09-21 00:34:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. You may be IN LOVE with one person and just love the other one. If you say you are in love with 2 people at the same time, then I say ur just confused.
2006-09-21 00:23:14 · answer #7 · answered by ur_strange2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, absolutely. I'm sure you will get plenty of "no's" but it is true you can. It's not like a movie either is it? Where you're with a woman that slowly became a b i t c h throughout the course of your relationship, and one day you meet an angel who makes you rethink everything. No, in reality they both have great things about them, and neither is the "best" one.
2006-09-21 00:26:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's entirely possible, but if you're married, don't act on the second one. It takes strong minded, independant people to make polygamy work. If you already have a marriage, another person was not part of her agreement.
2006-09-21 00:21:44 · answer #9 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's entirely possible. Maybe you love them in two different ways. There's something about each of them that is attractive to you, and maybe you wish that one of them had both characteristics. Nobody's perfect.
2006-09-21 00:22:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋