Okay... i filed for child support about a month ago.. i had no idea where my sons father is.... but they found that he is working... and the only physical address they found was his grandmothers... and i know he isnt there. But they told me that as long as his grandmother is accepting the mail that they keep going. NOW the has a court date on OCT 30th because he never responded to them offering a DNA test. What if he isnbt getting the mail and doesnt knoow anything about this... will i still get child support?? And they just take it out of his check since he didnt ever respond?? PLEASE HELP!!!
2006-09-20 17:15:55 · 8 answers · asked by ncbutterfly_20 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes you should get it. He is responsible and he owes it to your child whether he is in his/her life or not. If he doesn't show up to court then they will proceed in deducting money from his job. Get in touch with the District Attorney! Good luck!
2006-09-20 17:23:45 · answer #1 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mostly depends on what state you are in, and the judge presiding. They CAN reset the court date, but in Texas, if he doesn't appear or respond then you automatically get what you ask for in the courts. If he's not denying paternity and has a job, AND they found his employment it's just a given. I just went through all of this a year ago, worked in my daughter's best interest! Hope it all goes well.
2006-09-20 17:24:47 · answer #2 · answered by SweetinTX1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too many women fall for the romanticized version of the fairy tale existence, marry and/or get pregnant (and wager what, it did no longer ensue all on her own...they guy is the single that impregnated) earlier getting stable education to get a great pastime, some will possibly on no account have had a activity outdoors of the homestead and now ought to circulate to commerce college or vocation education, for which some states enable a momentary era the place the guy has to pay upkeep to boot to newborn help until eventually she constructive factors the abilities to be gainfully employed. As to newborn help, maximum states have a formulation and it does burst off of what each parent makes; for this reason, if the guy earns lots greater money than the female, he has to pay a miles better share for the newborn to have the comparable familiar of residing that they might have had had the relatives remained intact. It seems such as you're female pal/fiancee/ or spouse #2 of a guy that has to shell out money for his toddlers and in all probability spousal help/upkeep to a former spouse. recover from it or do no longer stay in/get of of the relationship with the guy as there'll be no happiness for every physique in case you're envious of his commitments to his first relatives. Who is familiar with, you're able to be able to wind up interior the tail end of this subject sometime and be grateful you are able to placed a roof over you and your newborn(ren)'s head(s).
2016-10-15 06:02:40 · answer #3 · answered by bassage 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in that situation with a child that i found out that wasn't mine and they sued me and i didn't get the papers for court well within one month they were taking out child support and finally i got that straight so yes you should be able to recieve it and they will just go after hime to repay it if you are getting work first or anything to that extent you will get a steady check if they are paying it to you like as in work first but if they are not you will only get a check when he pays it out of his check or on his own
2006-09-20 17:30:12 · answer #4 · answered by napalm_nc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether he attends the court date or not you promptly go their and make an appeal regularly. undoubteadly you deserve the child. GOOD LUCK
2006-09-20 17:51:48 · answer #5 · answered by Mechie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they found out hes working hes getting the papers at work. theyre going to take it out his check and ole well if they do forget that. if he doesn't respond the case just goes to default.
2006-09-20 17:29:58 · answer #6 · answered by Ain't my baby gorgeous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should still be able to get it, but this question is best given to your lawyer.
2006-09-20 17:18:02 · answer #7 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
IF HIS NAME IS ON THE BIRTH CERTIFICATE THEN YOU HAVE NOTHING TO WORRY ABOUT
2006-09-21 06:01:08 · answer #8 · answered by FRECKLES 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋