Is it so bad being a loner? yeah its not all that social at all, but really... it is so less dramatic..
so what is your alls take on it? If your a Loner also then do you enjoy it? hate it?
If your not a Loner then what do you think about it? would you ever date a person that was/is one? etc I think you guys get my drift, I just want y'alls opinions!
2006-09-20 17:04:50 · 7 answers · asked by ♥Butterfly Kisses♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Depends on how you feel with the person. Some people truly have few friends and like the company of books, nature or spouse. If your intuition is telling you to watch out-then watch out. Lots of times loners come form dysfunctional families, were bullied and had few friends growing up, are sexual predators, some other criminal activity or are seriously mentally disturbed. High functioning adults with autism are loners also. Emotional connections are void for them.
2006-09-20 17:13:50 · answer #1 · answered by kriend 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most of the loners out there will agree with me when I say being a loner really, really sucks! We like chillin with people too. It’s just harder for us being accepted by others…
I can only think of 3 reason for why a person may be a loner:
1) They don’t seem to fit in with anyone else: They wear different kinds of clothes and listen to a different type of music, etc. To me, these people are cool because they’re not trying to impress anyone; they’re just being themselves. A lot of times these people turn out being much cooler to hang out with than ‘normal‘ people.
2) They‘re extremely shy. They want to join in with the crowd but can’t because they just don’t have the nerve. A lot of times shy people are misunderstood. People think they are stuck up or that they are nerds. But if given the chance shy people turn out being just like everyone else.
3) They enjoy they’re own company. They like reading books and stuff. They could have a whole different life outside of school/work though that you would be really surprised about. They could have lots of friends and act perfectly normal.
--) Yah I must admit that some loners must be psychotic freaks but that has to be rare…
You asked “Would you ever date a person that was/is [a loner]?”. Well my answer to that is Of Course! Hey, loners are people too! "If you prick us do we not bleed? If you tickle us do we not laugh? If you poison us do we not die? And if you wrong us, shall we not revenge?"
2006-09-21 01:48:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on what makes you a loner and how big of a loner you really are...if you are a loner because you are a jerk and treat everyone bad you deserve to be a loner if you are aloner because you have problems or are a lil different then yea id hate to be aloner....i am a lil of a loner i dont got many real friends...ppl judge me before they get to know me and i hate it...i dont think i deserve to be a loner but if thats what happens i will take it and live life to the fullest......i will just keep the friends i do have....if i had none i would do the things i enjoy to do anyways.....you dont need a group of fakies to enjoy urself
2006-09-21 00:29:50 · answer #3 · answered by Confused Lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is bad being a loner I would have to admit. But being shy doesn't really help the situation too. I could have a lot of friends if I got out of my comfort zone. But that it hard for me to do. So basically it sux, and until I like myself; well then things will be better.
2006-09-21 00:18:36 · answer #4 · answered by i_luv_krista_allen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Im not a loner but I think that in some cases it isnt less dramatic...because to tell the truth who wants to be a loner?!? Seriously...no one. But yea I would date a person like that if I liked them.
2006-09-21 00:09:02 · answer #5 · answered by ---REBA--- 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's really a mixed bag like u can be a loner in school but have a lot of friends outside school dating a loner I say go for it
2006-09-21 00:10:00 · answer #6 · answered by gleeknerdfighter48 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey shygirl. i am also a loner I spent last 5 years as file clerk here in NYC and had plenty of OT. during that time, many of my friends moved away, got married and stuff. im down to one friend.now i dont hv a job, no gf, no cool car, im a lil down but im still hanging on. i discovered this answers on yahoo is fantastic.
so go out and say hi to anyone.
2006-09-21 00:11:52 · answer #7 · answered by Necat T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋