Well me and my boyfriend were thinking about doing it but we dont really know how but we still want to if we're not too young.
2006-09-20 16:59:48 · 70 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Y...E...S...YES!!!!!!! Not only is it too young to have sex; it's too young to be having a boyfriend! Where is your mom, girl?? Please do not do this. You have your whole life ahead of you and sex is something best saved for when you get married. Between you and your future husband, it will be wonderful. Now, it would just be uncomfortable for both of you, embarrassing, scary, and it has nothing to do with love. And if that boy is pressuring you, you need to stay away from him!! Please, do NOT have sex at age 12. Hang out with your girlfriends; watch movies; go shopping; spend time with your family.
2006-09-20 17:04:08 · answer #1 · answered by peachy78 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Yes, most certainly. First, you could get pregnant, second you could get an STD. Third, you are giving up something that is so special at such a young age. You probably will not understand the importance of keep your viriginity until the right moment, but trust me... it is well worth the wait!!! I didn't wait and so wish I had, It is something you can never tever take back. I wouldn't take back my kids, but you know I was way too young. I had two kids as a teenager, so please I would do anything to keep others from having sex so young!
2006-09-20 17:03:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
You r way too young to be having sex. U can't just get up one day and say "I want to have sex today!" U need to think about the consequences. U can get pregnant or get some type of STD. You shouldn't even be thinking about having sex at 12 yrs old!
2006-09-20 17:36:55 · answer #3 · answered by ur_strange2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE WAY TOO YOUNG!!!!!!
I nkow you wuold like to think you are all grown up, or you want to be all grown up and do grown up things... but think of this way...\
Just imagine all the things you have learned in the last 12 years of your life and know that you are going to learn just as much, if not more in the next 12 years.
You are too young to make this decision. this guy, and you don't have near enough experience to know how to make a relationship really work and it will sure fizzle at some point. Wait until you have more experience under your belt in dealing with other typs of relationship issues before you jump into this one.
2006-09-20 17:04:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely too young....and what happens if you get pregnant? Its like a baby having a baby! Dont do it. Sex can wait with the right person and at the right time. Plus at 12 do you think you and your partner is mature enough? Also remember that boys mature later than girls...so its like you're 12 but you're having sex with a person whose mind is a year old.
2006-09-20 17:04:12 · answer #5 · answered by june_ellis86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! I know that you may think you two are ready. That may be true to you at this time. Try to take a step back and think for the future. The average life of an individual is 80 years old? Imagine if you have sex now, get pregnant or got a sexually transmitted disease, what are you going to do for the rest of your 68 yrs? Also, if you have sex now, there is one less thing to look forward to when you become an adult. I There will be plenty of time to explore sex later on. Sex is not the only way to express your love for each other. Good luck!
2006-09-21 01:54:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Believe it or not, sex is a grown up, responsible part of life. Would you like to become pregnant and be a mother by the time you are 13. Do you think boyfriend would hang around? Sex isn't just a thing you do, just to say you did. Have you talked to your Mom about going on birth control pills? It won't happen to you? Ask around, before you and your boyfriend do it.
2006-09-20 17:07:04 · answer #7 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is waaay to young. You can't possibly know how to deal with sex. Especially as a girl, you are not emotionally ready to deal with sex. It changes you in ways you can't imagine, and will quite possibly make you clingy to the guy you're with. Don't be in a hurry to grow up. It's overrated. Enjoy the simplicity of youth. A sexual relationship is complicated. I've seen 30-year olds lose their self esteem over sex. People shall see you differently. Even your boyfriend will see you differently. A lot of people regret having sex too young, I've never heard anyone regret NOT doing it. Honey, please wait.
2006-09-20 17:46:13 · answer #8 · answered by vivmaiko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are definitely still too young. I suggest you wait. Do your research on sex. Think of consequences of having sex and if you can handle them. What if you get pregnant? How would your parents handle knowing their 12 year old is going to be a parent? Or what if you decide on an abortion, so your parents wont know? Whose going to pay for one? Although its not that expensive how will you or your boyfriend pay for one? How about STD's? Sexually transmitted diseases? You should do your research on this topic that you are unaware about. Theirs a lot of emotion involved. Prepare yourself b4 you just jump into sex.
2006-09-20 17:08:30 · answer #9 · answered by Rica 82 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are waaaaaaaaay too young. What if you get pregnant? Are you ready to deal with raising a child now? You are not physically or emotionally prepared for sex, not by a long shot. Wait about 5 or 6 years.
And why do you have a boyfriend already? Do your parents know?
2006-09-20 17:01:39 · answer #10 · answered by julz 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋