i have known people for years, but i still cant be myself, i am always shy, and i always say stupid things. or i laugh different, and then people say comments like thats so annoying or geeze i hate when you do that. i cant seem to get comfortable around anyone! not even my family ne more. wats wrong with me. sometimes i can be myself but come across too strongly, and other times i just dont know what to say.
i get sad when someone says something rude but trys to play it off as a joke. i dont know why, i try to shrug it off and laugh, but deep down inside i just wanna run and hide. how do i stop all of this. i know i am not like this. i can be myself around my boyfriend but even then i dont feel like me all the way at times.
2006-09-20 16:49:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just try to relax. Alot of times it is better not to say anything than to say something. If you are confused make some lists lots of them. Head them "what do I believe?" What do I like? What do I dislike? Who do I like? What type people do I want to be around? What do I want to be...........this way you will get to know yourself better. Maybe you have never gotten to know YOU!
2006-09-20 16:55:36 · answer #1 · answered by ladynamedjane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are You Cancer? I think You have to change You routine, do things that You really want to do, Don't care much about what the people say, ignore the people that is been rude with You, so They will realize You have been hurt, Try self confidence, try no to talk too much or be fake, just listen what They say, but when You talk make sure They understand You, Good luck
2006-09-20 17:02:16 · answer #2 · answered by Charly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself...and people will like you for that. If you try so hard to fit in then you will come across as someone who is faking everything. Im a very shy person and it takes time for me to open up. Although sometimes I feel out of place when in a group I dont force myself to fit in by pretending someone that I am not. If I'm not comfortable talking then I wouldnt, simple as that. Remember you're not in this world to please everyone. Like I said be true to yourself.
2006-09-20 16:53:26 · answer #3 · answered by june_ellis86 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At paintings there's a guy who sits next to me who's on no account the 1st one to communicate yet he's purely quiet, no longer shy. An impact of shyness may additionally come from posture, no longer purely silence. So shop your hair decrease back, your head up, make eye touch, and lead with a grin. physique language could triumph over any unfavorable impressions.
2016-10-01 05:04:15 · answer #4 · answered by gangwer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're in your teens, it's quite normal to feel like this. I felt really shy and not like myself until college when I had a ton of time to reflect on what my life was about, what it meant to me. I am more myself than I have ever been. Everyone is a little shy at first, once you get to know people though, to form a strong bond with them, you should open up to them and let them see who you reaslly are. Chances are you're a great person, and if they don't see that, they're crazy.
2006-09-20 16:53:24 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica F 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl you're telling stories about me.... i know i'm smart but sometimes when i start talking i ended up like someone who just came out of the cave. when i want to be invovled in some conversation i said some stupid words.. ended up with people looking at me as if i'm trying too much to be in that conversation, or be in the spotlight, or what ever... saying be myself is harder saying it than doing it right.... i tell you what i did... keep doing what i'm best with....hehe...i realize i'm that person... that character is just so me! if i don't want to be the bad gurl, and i can't be the nice one... what the heck, being both is not that bad.. hey, since when the world that fair huh...
welcome to the community...:)
2006-09-20 17:11:01 · answer #6 · answered by pheobe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow I'm like this too sometimes!
Thats just in our personality
how we were raised,I guess.
I just try 2 be myself, & not care what other
ppl think or say,because you are YOU and that
is all you can be.
Your lucky your alive ,think of all those ppl that
don't have food to eat,or a home
think how just bad they feel b/c there
problems r much bigger! This is what
I think about when I ever I start thinking
about this topic.
2006-09-20 16:55:25 · answer #7 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and not try to be someone you not.
Just be sincere and honest when you are talking to people. It's easier to be honest than to pretend to be what you are not.
2006-09-20 17:22:05 · answer #8 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋