i moved from california to texas i had to major friends in CA and now they are not so good friends anymore. i am the kind of person who is caring and kind and say sorry and thak you wau to much, and i let people walk all over me. and even though i am states away that makes the drahma only worse.you see one of my friends said that she was the leader and ruled us and i posted a message saying that i thought differently an di tried to be as nice as possible. and now she is aaying that she hates me! for more info check out theses 2 site and read the shout out or comment boxes
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2006-09-20 16:15:27 · 4 answers · asked by Tay Tay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You don't live there anymore, why care what any of them say, think, or do? Make new friends. If the old ones are going to dog on you...doesn't sound like they were worth much to begin with!
2006-09-20 16:36:03 · answer #1 · answered by eyeque195 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are really interested in improving your own behavior, rather than just getting the approval of 'so-called' friends (who needs enemies when you have friends like that?). .
than I suggest you check out books or websites on co-dependency and (hazelden.org) or read books by Melody Beattie. "Letting people walk all over me" is a symptom of low self-esteem that people (especially young women) often suffer if we have grown up in homes where substance abuse was present.
You can get help. ... you can take charge of your life, but you need to realize that you can also find other friends, who are healthier and will appreciate you for who you are, not just manipulate you into being what they want. that is a parasitic relationship.
you CAN change TaTa. .. and you will feel so much better about yourself.
good luck!
2006-09-20 23:23:07 · answer #2 · answered by OSCookieDelta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep busy by going to school and taking extra English classes so you can learn to write and express yourself correctly in the English language. No wonder you have so few friends. Who among them could ever understand your attempt to communicate!!
Chow!!!
2006-09-20 23:19:39 · answer #3 · answered by No one 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it
2006-09-20 23:16:36 · answer #4 · answered by emilyy:) 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋