How do I approach him?

Question

The other day when I was cleaning my boyfriends house I discovered that a condom that had been there for months was missing...What should I do? Should I jump to conclusions and accuse him? Or should I ask him? and I know we didn't use it. This is really tearing me apart?

Answer 1

no
my girlfriend went on a rampage when she found a pair of panties that were not hers at my house, if she had listened she would know that they had come back from the laundry with my shirts, they must have been left in the washing machine the laundry used from the previous customer and they sent it with my laundry.
however when her laundry came back with a pair of male underpants it was a different story, I was being ridiculous to think she was having an affair.
I can tell you from personal experience nothing is more insulting or annoying when you are being faith full and you are accused of cheating.

if you can control your anger simply ask him,
NOT accuse him. Tell him you know you are being silly , but why is the condom gone?
his answer may well be what condom or i dont know, I lose stuff all the time throw stuff out and dont remember because it isn't important.
if he was having an affair you look for new packets of condoms.
it would be best if you can let it go unless there are other reasons to suspect he is having an affair

Answer 2

Well, just ask him, tell him you noticed a condom was missing, and ask him, if he is guilty he will jump around with his wording really funny like, so don't worry I'm sure its nothing.

Answer 3

I guess if it's really bothering u u should ask. Maybe he put it somewhere or threw it away.If u should ask don't ask in a mad way ask in a calm voice.U never know what the answer is he may have put it somewhere else or gave it to a friend.

Answer 4

He could have given it to a friend or a sibling! Maybe ask him but dont be too pushy or he will get angry!

Answer 5

ask him.