please tell me how long u have been in the realationship and if u are married.
2006-09-20 15:58:12 · 10 answers · asked by Eva Daniel Rn 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't....unless it's a 3 some...lol and were together
2006-09-20 16:35:47 · answer #1 · answered by Jess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! I have been in the "relationship" for 2 years and I am not married, we have problems but i hope and pray that one day we will solve it. I have never ever cheated on her for the years that we have been in the relationship and do not think I ever will. Some people do but then they need to get out of the relationship. Some time you get married before you are prepared for it some time it is an arranged marriage and then trouble could start. I have been in a few relationships over theyears and have never cheated on my partner. Even if it is not going well and I have made the promise I will stick to it to the end. Why start a relationship or choose a partner if you want to cheat. I have known many men who cheat on there partners or wives, I think it is insecurity from there side and phsycologically they may feel that this is their way to look big. Why have a partner if you want to play the field. I discussed my partner with her boss and have been paying for it ever since, I still have not cheated on her and hope one day I will have a chance to discuss it with her. Strange though now she is more devoted to him and refuses to talk to me
2006-09-20 18:43:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never cheated on anyone. Ive been in a 2 yr. and a 4 yr. relationship and never cheated. However i've been cheated on. But i think that if I feel the need to cheat then I dont need to be with the person im with. If you truly love someone you'll be faithful.
2006-09-20 16:15:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am with my husband for a total of 13, the last 7 we have been married, and no, not everyone cheats on their partners.
This said I still don't think having sex outside marriage is such a big deal. I would obviously not want my husband trolling red-light districts or whore around with anyone willing (nor would I be interested in any of that myself), but why would having sex outside a marriage be such a terrible thing? I think that sexual attraction to someone else than your spouse is to be expected - if you are lucky, it is only some moviestar or some ex-lover from your past that populate your fantasy.
But if you happen to be turned on by someone living, breathing, nice and available, I don't believe this means you don't love your spouse. It just means you are turned on by someone else. It doesn't mean you don't want sex with your spouse any more, it only means you would also like sex with someone else.
Personally I don't think it would bother me too much - hey, of course a bit, but I KNOW my man loves me, and him being there for me and with me, sharing our lives and making a go for it seems a lot more important than never straying from our marriage bed.
2006-09-20 16:46:06 · answer #4 · answered by kate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been with my husband for over 2 years now and married for a year and a half. I could never imagine cheating on him. if you arent happy in the relationship your in I believe its better to get out then to cheat. If you arent happy then what is there to hold on to?
2006-09-20 16:00:58 · answer #5 · answered by Jenn ♥Cadence Jade's mum♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married two years in Jan. never cheated, never will.
Also did not cheat in previous relationship of two years (in spite of being cheated on).
Nothing prior to that.
2006-09-20 16:05:29 · answer #6 · answered by spunk113 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been married to my husband for 12 years, and started to cheat a month ago, i was lonely, and missed having sex, cuddling , my Man has not touched me down there in 3 years, but i married for better or worse, i meet this wonderful young man, at the park, we became friends, he made me laugh allot, and i had to give myself, to him, i was his first, he is 14 years old , and has a real big little fella in his pants, and it was just wonderful.......... sign BULL
2006-09-20 16:12:46 · answer #7 · answered by bull 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was married for 10 yrs and never cheated and when we got divorced there was no bad feelings we were just to young when we got married
2006-09-20 16:11:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not once. Why cheat ? If you are with some one and feel like you have to cheat... why not leave the one your with first ?
2006-09-20 18:23:19 · answer #9 · answered by frankfort_girlie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i and him has been for 3 years and one month now.no,i never cheated him because i love him more than myself,i know he is the same too.
2006-09-20 16:01:44 · answer #10 · answered by misha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋