Why? It's all consuming, and some days (seriously pathetic, self-pitying days) I just can't move on. What is the root of it and why can small things make a person feel guilty? It's amazingly tiresome. Open forum, I'm curious.
2006-09-20 15:56:19 · 10 answers · asked by hvjhv 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Well, It's funny, fellow Yahoo! Answer people. I'm just realizing it was nothing I did. There was no big event that haunts me to this day, shadowing happy events and promting crappy poetry. The "whore"comments haha, you silly boy, and Yu Yazura whatever your name is...interesting. People are mean for no reason. Sadistic sometimes. Promting you to feel guilty and on edge. I was told to feel guilty by my religious upbringing. But I'm not looking for God, nor do I need a God. I have my family, my friends, myself, and my goals. (Nothing against anyone else, please.) Amazinglly enough It's finally hit me. I don't need guilt to be "pure" like i've been told. It's a stupid emmotion that makes a pathetic, self-envolved society. Hell I need to get out and enjoy myself. Live life. I like the go-cart idea. I'm just writing my thoughts because this is very cool for me. I'm totally free, and I have a really lame reason for it but whatever. I love it!
2006-09-20 16:38:37 · update #1
docjp- thankyou =)
2006-09-20 16:44:16 · update #2
Deeply felt emotions, or those behind the terms we use to describe them, are taken-on at or near birth. They are misperceptions of who and what one must be made by ones MIND...due to the fact that the MIND cannot perceive ones Spiritual energy core. See below.
Ones MIND does this as part of ones Fate Karma, so that the misperception taken-on becomes one of many such misperceptions that constitute ones Negative Self-Image. The thrust of this NS-I causes one to experience certain things... that are destined for one to experience [this of course can be denied and argued, but it is a fact nonetheless].
Guilt, or the sense that causes one to identify what one experiences as guilt, is akin to wrong, bad, unable, incapable, etc. These all share in common a "need to punish oneself. The degree to which one does so ranges from seriously harmful to emotionally distressing. Hopefully yours is like the ladder.
It does not lessen the pain of the experience any, but it does help to build ones ability to accept, to hear that everything we experience is "due us" for actions taken in previous births. So, what we experience is a way of working off our Karmic debts so to speak.
If interested in working on the MIND-level causal for your experiencing of guilt, you might try sitting quietly, and with eyes closed, allow yourself to drift back in time, remembering any especially painful events... and allow yourself to cry, and if possible, grieve for these. Do this every evening, and the result should bring about a sense of peace afterwords.
Peace
2006-09-20 16:40:59 · answer #1 · answered by docjp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it plagues you when you are so judgmental of yourself, that you feel guilty when you feel you didn't do something right, when you really have nothing to be guilty about. It's trying to be the best person you can be, but over doing it sometimes. It also shows you actually care, and keeps you in check from doing somthing wrong. I think it makes you a good person, but can depress you if you over do it by judging yourself wrongly, and blinding yourself from the fact that you really didn't do anything wrong.
But then ofcourse you have the kind where you really did do something wrong, and you try to hide your hypocracy and stupidiy and believe your all right and perfect, but the guilt eats up inside you. I love this because I love it when people get away with crap, but still pay the consequences of pure, absolute guilt, proving they were wrong with what they did. Some of those people start to loose it, and they deserve it for being jerks and harming someone. And they're forced to learn from it this hard way.
They can't hide from the truth if they have a conscience.
Oh yeah, thumbs down because I make no sense.
2006-09-20 16:01:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that guilt (and particularly the torment that comes with it) originates from a faulty belief that your worth as a human being (to society, or to God if you are religious) is dependent upon your ability to achieve some ideal that you hold yourself to. The fact is that we all have faults and we all make mistakes. It is healthy to have goals and to strive for self-improvement, but your self-worth should not depend on it. To answer the question more specifically for you (i.e., whether your guilt has some religious basis or experiential basis or something else) I'd have to know your personal situation, but psychologically the origin is the same.
2006-09-20 16:13:59 · answer #3 · answered by arcanefairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women seemed to plagued by guilt. However, guilt is like pain -- a warning signal. What is the root of it? Probably the realization that some of the small things you do have a negative impact. Think your day through before you go to sleep of night and learn to make necessary adjustments in the future.
2006-09-20 16:00:22 · answer #4 · answered by waytooeasy67 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know from personal experience that Almighty God is able to remove guilt and give you peace. Even after I became a Christian I was bombarded with what I call condemnation. Then I began to realize that it was a trap of satan to keep me down. I started to believe what God says in His Word Romans 8
1 There is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus, who do not walk according to the flesh, but according to the Spirit.
2 For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus has made me free from the law of sin and death.
3 For what the law could not do in that it was weak through the flesh, God did by sending His own Son in the likeness of sinful flesh, on account of sin: He condemned sin in the flesh,
4 that the righteous requirement of the law might be fulfilled in us who do not walk according to the flesh but according to the Spirit.
(NKJV)
2006-09-20 16:19:30 · answer #5 · answered by snowcrablegs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are countless opportunities for self-improvement, and you are seeing that reality for what it is -- that you are an imperfect person, and that you could do better for yourself and for others. There is nothing wrong with this -- it demonstrates a tremendous amound of self-honesty to realize that one can do better. However, if your self-honesty is preventing you from living a decent, fulfilling life, you should consider enrolling in some dedicated counseling. Good luck.
2006-09-20 16:02:21 · answer #6 · answered by Daniel M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 09:05:14 · answer #7 · answered by bergene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn thats very true but what i did i will never ever forget
oh and get out have some fun and you'll forget all about it. like go go-karting with some friends and only think about finishing the race before they do. it worked for me.
2006-09-20 16:00:27 · answer #8 · answered by glyph06 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
HHMM Sounds like there may be depression issue that you may be dealing with. Maybe you show consult your doctor to find out more.
2006-09-20 15:59:34 · answer #9 · answered by catzbak1104 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont be such a whore and you wouldnt have this problem
2006-09-20 16:04:30 · answer #10 · answered by lolatproxy 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋