I have a few friends who are very popular and I talk to them whenever I see them and they're very nice...anyways. i want to be popular because i want to be recognized like my freinds always are. or does my being freinds with a bunch of popular people already make me popular?
2006-09-20 15:50:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Not nessesarily. You have to have a great personality, and be fun to be around.
Being funny or cute is always a plus.
But be yourself, and you will become popular with the right people.
2006-09-20 15:52:46 · answer #1 · answered by greenbayfan1114 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and have an outgoing personality and people will enjoy being around you. Just because you hang out with a popular crowd, doesn't mean that it will make you popular. It'll look like you're a stuck up and kissing everybody's a**. People will recognize you by your personality and your way of looking at life. Remember to NOT change yourself for nobody.
2006-09-20 15:57:12 · answer #2 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt make you popular, you are just part of the in crowd because you have been seen hanging around popular people.Being popular takes alot of energy. Im not saying its a bad thing, but wouldnt you rather be likes just for who you are? Now, if you just happened to be popular because you were an athlete or for some talent that you have, thats great. But not just because you are pretty or you have a nice car or something stupid like that. You have popular friends and thats cool and everything, but you shouldnt want to be like anyone else.
2006-09-20 15:56:23 · answer #3 · answered by Lou Lou 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey being popular isnt all u think it is its really hard having everyone know who ur are even when ur having a bad day and u have to be very orginal and set trends but i guess the best way to be popular is to be friendly and open and just be a nice person to everyone and jsut be outgoing and live like u dont care wat everyone else thinks and thats a good way to be popular and thats how i am popular cuz im a nice person that everyone gets along with and that says hey to everyone and i have my own style
2006-09-22 14:02:40 · answer #4 · answered by ~*!Tish!*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off there is no such thing of being popular. you teens really need to grow up and act mature. popular is just a word so is peer pressure; there is no such thing . i would say be yourself. dont hang out with a certain kind of group just to see where you fit. if you are nice , kind, considerate to others feelings and not cruel to people, then you will fit in everywhere. people will respect you more then trying to be popular . in the long run, honey , when you graduate some day, if you do, none of that stuff is gonna matter. its so immature.
2006-09-20 15:55:05 · answer #5 · answered by melanie_jokester 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question. I don't quite know but i think that if you are friends with the popular ppl then that probably makes you popular to. So yea. Look at it this way are the popular ppl's other friends popular? If they are then that makes you popular too. But that doesn't really matter. In God's sight we are all popular.
2006-09-20 15:55:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not usually, but you will find that popularity is only important to those not planning to do something with their lives after they graduate.
2006-09-20 15:55:14 · answer #7 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if you yourself are consistently pleasant.
The proof is if you keep getting invited to the parties thrown by popular people.
2006-09-20 15:53:06 · answer #8 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to be popular around the people you care and love....the rest are not important
2006-09-20 15:52:38 · answer #9 · answered by JTB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it makes you a popular wanna be.
2006-09-20 15:52:03 · answer #10 · answered by stick man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋