My best friend has slowly been pushing me back. I went from best friend #1 to #2, and then to #3. And I'm tired of this. She claims she loves me and that she wants to be friends forever, but I don't feel the love. I feel like she's keeping me close for different reasons. So I just ignored her today. Now she's extremelly upset. And I'm wondering, do I really mean that much to her? If she cries like this, does she really care? And if so, why doesn't she show it? I'm far too scared to talk to her. What should I do.
2006-09-20 15:42:41 · 7 answers · asked by Daye C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell her that you care for her friend ship but that you did not like to be pushed away by her....so maybe she will react to that...and give you you place in your friendship
2006-09-20 15:51:19 · answer #1 · answered by JTB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend sounds really petty and can't make up her mind. She's probably using you as a backup in case the other two decide to drop her. Ignore her for awhile and if she really wants to be your friend she'll stop acting like jerk.
2006-09-20 22:46:25 · answer #2 · answered by Lainie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there may be other reasons as to why she is being distant. are there new friends in the picture? she may be afraid to put you before them... not sure why but it also happened to me so i know first hand how it feels. i ended up just moving on from that friendship, maybe thats what you need to do.
2006-09-20 22:46:57 · answer #3 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH PLEASE LET IT GO .YES GOOD FRIENDS ARE HARD TO FIND BUT IT SEEMS LIKE U DIDN'T HAVE IT ANY . I HAD TO DO THE SAME THING AND U KNOW WHAT I FOUND OUT I HAD MY BEST FRIEND W/ ME ALL A LONG GOD .SOUNDS LIKE SHE IS USING U TO ME FOR WHAT EVER REASON .DON'T TRY TO FIG ER IT OUT JUST LET GO GIRL SMILE IT WILL BE OK AND DIDN'T UR MOTHER TEACH U OTHER WOMEN ARE NOT UR FRIEND LISTEN TO HER SHE'S RIGHT......
2006-09-20 22:54:56 · answer #4 · answered by djonecat@yahoo.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it a little time when you do talk to her let her how you feel about her i think she will be back and in love with you go for it good luck to the both of you
2006-09-20 22:50:21 · answer #5 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun you should just try to over come your fear and talk to her. What could she possibly do? I f you dont talk to her then your making the situation even worst . Judt talk to her and tell her how you feel.
2006-09-20 22:46:45 · answer #6 · answered by cutteallstar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her be and you will see if she really wants your friendship or not
2006-09-20 22:44:57 · answer #7 · answered by DustinHastings 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋