i think she's right too??? i dont kno what to do... she's a sophmore, and im a freshman... like if she disses someone, i did too today... i couldnt believe it.. b/c im not that type of person... immedialty after i said those harsh words, i knew something was wrong when they came tumbling out...
then this gurl 'whos a bad influence' on me started sayin that my other frinds had attitude problems and i wouldnt here of it....
i dont kno wat to do... i cried over this too.. as lame as this sounds... im not really caught in these situations... and like to think of my slef as a strong, unique indivisual....
im loST! plz help!!
2006-09-20 15:41:23 · 9 answers · asked by iyikka14 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
but this sophmore gurl is really cool... i mean i dont wanna DITCH her.. but how do i keep her from rubbing OFF on me?? i mean... dsmn.. i NVR let this happen with anyone else!!!
2006-09-20 15:49:46 · update #1
IM SO CONFUSED!!!
do u think i should still TALK to her, and just not be tyte, or just DITCH her completely.... i thinking ditching her would be worse..
i really dont plan on doin that but how should i kno where i stand with her 'attitude'..????!
2006-09-20 15:56:51 · update #2
do not separate from your old friend and always use her as an excuse so you do not go out with your bad influence friend, show no interest in her friendship she will go away...
2006-09-20 15:48:20 · answer #1 · answered by JTB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a strong individual you would dump that new "friend".When you hang around people with bad attitudes it will rub off. I have seen this happen many times as well as have it happen to me. I stopped associating with that person but the people who didn't were no longer nice but very critical of everyone and not a good thing to say about anyone. If you want to be a lemming go ahead but if you want to be yourself then you need to get this person out of your life.
2006-09-20 15:49:16 · answer #2 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like there is something about this chic that you feel like you have to impress her. To go along with what she does and says. Also, it sounds like she is trying to get you to pick her over your friends. She appears to be very insecure and has to have all the attention. Because you feel you aren't acting true to yourself when you are around her, then it will be better if you break ties with her.
2006-09-20 15:51:53 · answer #3 · answered by pregyfrog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The company you keep will always reflect upon you. You may think she is cool but how many other people think she is. No one is going to like someone that is always dissing and bad mouthing everyone around her.
2006-09-20 15:53:05 · answer #4 · answered by C K Platypus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a bad influence Hiba,, when you said that to Azatt I was like omg that is sooo not Hiba.. and like Kayla is sooo loud and big mouthed;) me & Bobo Sue dont really like her.
<3 AUbrey.
2006-09-22 04:10:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should always trust the people you have known longer becuase they know you better then you know yourself. So you should stick with your old friends. Just blow off you new friend or tell her that you don't feel comfotable talking about other people.
2006-09-20 15:47:44 · answer #6 · answered by Kay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this new friend is causing you to do things that make you cry then it stands to reason that you should drop her as a friend. Especially if it is causing problems with your old friends. Would you rather loose one of your old friends or this new one that is getting your into trouble.
2006-09-20 15:49:08 · answer #7 · answered by Kelly M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. in actuality, my associates' mum and dad needed them to hold out with me. i grow to be considered a "goody 2 shoes" so their mum and dad felt that being around me ought to help their young infants stay outta worry. (a solid impression, i assume...) finding lower back on it now, I are conscious of it worked...
2016-12-18 14:02:13 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a bad influence to me
2006-09-20 15:44:09 · answer #9 · answered by DustinHastings 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋