Married man taking female hormones. When do I tell my wife.?

Question

Im a 31 year old man. My wife of 13 years knows I love to cross dress and she goes along with it. She even knows Ive been with guys while dressed up. But she does not know that I really want to be a woman. I have all my life, but I dident know what to do. Anyway, I started on Premarin a month ago. How long should I wait to tell her. And will she know Im taking them if I dont tell her?

Answer 1

If you really and truely love your wife i think you should of told her when you started taking them, If shes been understanding enough to let you be with someone else then why wouldn't she stick by your side for this ? Shes got to be one hell of a women, i know i could never do what she has...

Answer 2

Sorry, you are too late already. You have been lying and betraying her pretty badly and you are worrying how much longer you can get away with it? It will likely be over once your breast are bigger than hers. You don't want a wife, you want a built-in support system without any responsibilities of your own. If she stays once you tell her, fine, her decision. Your cowardice in not telling her and going behind her back implies you know she might not be staying to see you turn into a woman. But it is just too nice to have someone there and caring for you - why would you give that up if you don't have to. You are just using her and you don't seem to care about what she might want or deserve. Egotism is alive and well.

Answer 3

Tell her the good news is that your kids will soon have two mommies. The rest she should be able to figure out pretty soon.

Answer 4

i think she will know eventually and the sooner you tell her the better off your relationship will be. if you want to continue it with her that is.....

Answer 5

right now