2006-09-20 14:49:51 · 36 answers · asked by applecheeks 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Too bad for you. Your husband works to support the home and you are thinking of cheating because he is too tired? What a self absorbed biitch.
2006-09-20 14:54:04 · answer #1 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You got married for a reason, even if it's difficult to remember at times. We all go through difficult times, and every relationship will have its challenges. If you spend some time investing in your marriage, and in the person you made a life-long commitment to, though, especially in these tough times, you'll be surprised at how much happier you end up.
Do something nice for him, something that shows that you really took his likes/dislikes into account, and you might be surprised at his sudden burst of energy.
If you are just waiting until he feels like having sex, when it happens it probably won't be the greatest, since I'm sure he can sense the fact that you're waiting for him to do so, and that creates pressure, which doesn't exactly make for the best sex.
Just like we need the mood created at times, men do too, especially when they're hard at work providing for their families. Sometimes simple expressed gratitude for their hard work can make all the difference.
Sex is much more enjoyable when there's an emotional connection in addition to the physical connection, and there is truth in the saying that it is better to give than to receive. Be there for him - it will pay off.
2006-09-20 15:11:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO it is never okay to have an affair. You would not like it if he was the one wanting an affair. Cheating is wrong now matter what, and just because he works and is to tired for sex, does not mean that you can hurt and betray him. He is working hard to support you, and make your family work, and you want to go and tear it apart like that. I just don't understand some people. Be glad that you have a man that WILL work, and not beat you, and sponge off of you
2006-09-20 14:54:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never " okay " to have an affair. Try to appreciate the fact that he is such a hard worker and think of all of the people out there who wish they were married to someone who isn't afraid of work. Having an affair would be almost like punishing him for providing for you. I do get that you still deserve to be loved, but you need to communicate it to him and at the same time try to be more understanding about how tired your husband feels. It IS NOT okay he is neglecting you emotionally and physically. Try counseling..it does help. But back to your question....nope..it's not okay to have an affair. There is never an okay time for that. End one relationship before you begin another..okay? Good luck.
2006-09-20 15:03:14 · answer #4 · answered by ShineOn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No---its not okay for you to have an affair. You say your husband is "too tired to have sex?" Ever? Surely there must be some window of opportunity when he is not too tired to have sex. If you are unhappy with the way your marriage is going, seek counseling, or get out.
2006-09-20 14:55:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, what is the real reason of wanting an affair? What you need to do is have a heart to heart talk with your husband and work things out.
2006-09-20 15:06:57 · answer #6 · answered by mclamb63 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be so stupid! if it was the other way around do YOU think it would be ok for your husband to have an affair if you worked all the time or too tired?? the answer to this question should be the answer to your own question
2006-09-20 14:53:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok wait , think about it, your hubby is too tired for sex???? thats not right, what guy is ever too tired for sex. are you sure he isnt having an affair.
anyway, what if your hubby didnt make that much money, would it be ok to go be with another man that made more money.
what if your hubby couldnt cook that good , would it be ok to go with a guy that is a better cook.
the point is when things get bad why leave just figure it out and deal with it. you cant just find anotther when the times get tough. stay with your man or divorce him if you arent satisfied.dont cheat on him and make him feel even more lower for not pleasing you.
2006-09-20 15:27:53 · answer #8 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know any man that's too tired to have sex for more than 3 days. But cheating is never ok. Let him be the whore and you can walk out with your head high. Use a condom.
2006-09-20 15:32:41 · answer #9 · answered by blame my gun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. but, it sounds like he's already cheating on you. Works all the time? A man too tired to have sex? Right.
2006-09-20 14:54:43 · answer #10 · answered by wmichgrad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋