I have so many problems. I had lice before, my skin is messed up, I have flabby thighs, I always get a zit whenever I get rid of one, I had to move twice in less than a year, I have a sweating problem, I have okay hair, I dont fit int othe size jeans I should fit in even though I am not even fat just have big thighs. I hate myself. Everything about me sucks and I just hate it.
2006-09-20 14:45:07 · 13 answers · asked by Bella Swan 3 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
First ...take a deep breath.....remember...everything can be fixed. You start with one problem at a time. One main factor for pimples ...is stress... I too have stress pimples...and i am 36 years old. i think everyone in there life times gets stuck in a rut. Second...most of us will catch lice one time or another in our lives...i had it twice in school. My dad...petitioned the school to make everyone use treatment....AS far as the thighs....find some exercise to thin those out....I worked on mine all summer...getting there so i know it's working...plus i weigh 125...5'7...so yes...i am trying to make it work. I went shopping two months ago...didn't buy any jeans ..because my thighs were whacked...today i bought a nice pair...because my routine is working....Nothing sucks about you...everyone has something they wish they could change about them selves....your just one of us. You seem to be at an age...where puberty is kicking you around. It will go away...These are the years you find who you are...If you let you physical appearance take over you....you will never be happy with your self....ask all the plastic surgeons...he will tell you...People don't like the way they look. You will grow out of it....just relax and understand these things happen in life...we all got through it...so hop on board and share the ride...I'm driving....
2006-09-20 23:50:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, turn your attitude around. Think positive. You know how many people get zits???? There wouldn't be all those skin care commercials on TV if a lot of people had perfect skin. Most of what you described is controllable. Diet and exercise will easily help your wieght and skin. There are about a zillion different types of jeans. Look at other brands. Plus, I think there are "high power" anti-persperents that can reduce the sweating.
You ain't the first and you won't be the last.
2006-09-20 21:58:59 · answer #2 · answered by shogun_316 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had similar problems. Skin? A good face wash every morning with some extra strength acne cream after does wonders. Flabby thighs? Run. You have no idea how much that helps. Sweating? Not too much you can do, except try an anti-perspirant.
Don't stress sweetie, it'll be fine. It is hard to be pretty.
2006-09-20 21:51:20 · answer #3 · answered by janelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darlin' YOU are NOT a MESS! you got healthy thighs, they work, you can walk!! You can see, hear, You can use your brain-- YOU got good hair!! YOU can have the thighs FIXED, just fine a good Dr. and have them SUCKEEEEEED out!! I am 5 foot 7 and a bean pole, but I sweat like a Russian Race Horse!!! IS GOOD! just shower and be glad you can sweat.. YOU need to get over your self.... Find out some helpfull stuff and move on... AND ask your Dr for ZOLOFT!! you may have a depression problem------ LIFE IS GOOD! just quit feeling sorry for yourself!! FIX UP!! GET OUT!!! move on ------ The Cajun
2006-09-20 21:54:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety, take up jogging, it releases endorphins that help you not care about the stressors in your life. There are new products out for acne and sweating...sweating is good for you by the way, but you might be one those people that need to shower two or three times a day. No one is gonna love you babe til you love yourself. So say screw the world and focus on your health....all the other things will fall into place!
2006-09-20 21:48:56 · answer #5 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you need to take a step back from the edge and just relax......
the lice problem... don't wear anyone else's hats, scarfs....etc.....
the skin problem--- depending on you skin type.... there are things you can do to help... call an Avon or marykay or some kind of person like that they will help you.. exercising will help your thighs.... so you have to take a couple of showers a day for the sweating.. so what... if you think that it is too bad call your Dr... maybe he can give you something to help... you just need to relax...
you need yo love yourself for who you are... and the stuff you said really isn't all that bad... where there is a will there is a way...
just remember you have to it doesn't matter what other people think about you it is what you think about yourself that matters..
if someone doesn't like you for you that's just to bad for them....
2006-09-21 01:32:03 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As for fitting in the pants, it's just the style they are cut. I am a size 6, but my thighs are muscular, so I can't find pants anymore that fit. Just wait for the styles to change back to a more generous cut. As for everything else, it sounds like you are a teen, and just need to give it all time. Look for the good in yourself!
2006-09-20 21:54:45 · answer #7 · answered by LucyPooBird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to that jerk- the running thing is a great idea, as is any kind of working out, will make you feel really empowered, if you take a class with other people at a local gym or YMCA you'll meet new people too. Find a black guy, they LOVE big thighs! everyone has had lice, who cares?
2006-09-20 21:51:54 · answer #8 · answered by laceywebbie2 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We've all been there. Work on one issue at a time and you'll start feeling better. Try not to get overwhelmed. Focus on the positive (at least you have nice hair)! Talk to your friends, I'm sure they're going through the same stuff. Hang in there!
2006-09-20 21:57:51 · answer #9 · answered by puma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to except who you are and not the just way you look. And god made you the way you are.Be happy the way you are.
2006-09-20 21:57:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋