im hiding in my room now, both kids are crying and stll fighting . The mother approved of the gift . Still I felt the need to apologize for the disturbance .MY GOD !! I should have never given them a toy . What should I do ? I feel like its my fault!
2006-09-20 14:20:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Love my Lou ...speaking of frikin idiots , it's not wise to dicipline kids that arent yours . Their mom is here and dealing with it, I just feel bad for the mess she has to deal with.
2006-09-20 14:25:59 · update #1
Uh, you feel bad for giving spoiled children GIFTS! Gawd, that's annoying. It's not your fault they're dumb @$$3$
2006-09-20 14:21:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't feel bad, it's not your fault. It's just the way kids are, trust me, I have three under 8. Go back out there, sit down with them and divide up the Leggos according to them, make a big deal about their choices. Be positive and make it fun. Most important, make sure they each have an equal amount! Then help them build something and if things remain peaceful, offer to help them build something together. Also tell them you are so glad they are having fun with your gift. Hope this helps! If not, go back in your room, stick cotton balls in your ears and let their mom handle them, lol.
2006-09-20 21:28:24 · answer #2 · answered by feather girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. lose the guilt! This is TOTALLY a learning experience these kids should go through. This is the whole "needing to share" and "building together".. type of thing. dont stress, i dont think the mother is.. Im sure she almost expected it, probably was just wondering when it was going to happen!
Go out there and say something to the effect of "I didnt realize a fight would start! Im sorry! Maybe gifts are a bad idea..."
the kids will either say noooooo!! and/or start playing nicely together VERY QUICKLY.
2006-09-20 21:25:46 · answer #3 · answered by senacia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let them slug it out winner take all. They just find something new to fight over and besides this way at least 1 of them gets to play instead of the legos being taken away.
2006-09-20 22:57:31 · answer #4 · answered by dork 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it back. No joke. Tell them that you bought the gift for them both to share and since they can't seem to do that or respect you and their mother, the gift is going back to the store. Don't back out either. You really have to follow through so they know who is really in charge.
2006-09-20 21:23:10 · answer #5 · answered by Encyclopedia Allie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well seems like your carring baggage from someone else proplem unless your intent was to make the kids fight...
if that wasn't your intent then you need to work on not taking other peoples baggage with you!
I would ask the mother if she needs any help if you want to continute to be a sapp. over all i would put some headphones on and chill out it's not your fault!
I mean if i give you a million buck and you spend it on drugs and die i'm not going to feel bad... I gave you a chance to do something with it and you took that change and did what you wanted... if i didn't want you to buy drugs then i would of bough you the stuff i wanted you to buy my self and givin it to you! it may be hazy for you to see the connection but trust me it all falls down to intent.. if your intent was bad then fault and baggage is yours... if intent was good then you did your job! what ever else happends isn't your problem!
it's not mean either!
But good luck!
Mad luv
2006-09-20 21:25:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Do nothing, you were just being thoughtful and giving these kids something they probably dont deserve. They need to learn to share and they should work it out themselves or let the mother take disciplinary actions.
2006-09-20 21:25:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
take the legos back and build a wall so you dont have to feel bad for being a wonderful caring person ,you are awesome dont feel bad for doing a good thing doll
2006-09-20 21:26:30 · answer #8 · answered by redneckwoodman 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
separate the kids
pass out the Lego's....like they do homework at school...one at a time
make a 'no trading' rule
do not let them demand a certain color...say 'you take what you get'
do not look at the Lego's as you pass them out....do not let them argue with you.....say 'play with them this way or i will put them away and you will not play with them at all'
(i agree with that dude ^^^^ but i think you should super-glue the kids together)
2006-09-20 21:23:30 · answer #9 · answered by Cap'n Donna 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about it. They're kids and kids fight over everything. Each wants it mainly because they think the other one wants it.
2006-09-20 21:23:19 · answer #10 · answered by fat_albert_999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋