i just found out today that my boyfriend has made out with the school's slut. i couldn't believe it! i was gonna kill her! i mean i hated her since i met her and she is a wierdo anyway so should i dump him or should i just let it go because it was his past?
2006-09-20 13:56:10 · 21 answers · asked by hottie...duh! 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
people i am 13
2006-09-20 14:09:35 · update #1
you should go hook up with one of his friends.
2006-09-20 13:58:13 · answer #1 · answered by stoned Midget 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, why kill her ??
calm down, take a deep breath and count to 10.
now, if your bf went out with her before he did with you , then why do you worry? If he had done it while in a relationship with you, then I would say DUMP HIM. Keep your cool dont let others control you, if they make you angry they do. peace.
2006-09-20 21:06:56 · answer #2 · answered by wonderwoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with him. No matter how sad u feel and betrayed. Don't think that it was all her trust me.break up with him then it's always gonna be fun he'll be running after you and you can keep the ball in your court.Think to yourself every day you are better than this. If you do forgive him you'll be forgiving them for your whole life. You can do better.go on chuch him
2006-09-20 22:18:02 · answer #3 · answered by donna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is the question, did he do it while he was with you? if not then you need to drop it. Every one has does something with somebody at one point in time that is not the nicest person, but that does not change the charter of the person. He is with you and not her, that should matter a lot.
2006-09-20 21:06:49 · answer #4 · answered by R C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM! if he treated you with respect and really liked you he wouldn't have done it.Find someone who will appreciate you.But make sure not to take it too far your only 13 anyway.
2006-09-20 23:04:22 · answer #5 · answered by Krysty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was before you then you have no right to be mad at him. It's just that, his past - not yours. Let it go and if something happens during the relationship then let him go.
2006-09-20 21:00:14 · answer #6 · answered by gwoodmama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
was it like today or a few years ago wen u WERENT TOGETHER? if it was lately...find out if ur guy wanned to kiss her...if she attacked him and didnt continue...blame her...but if it was a long time ago wen u werent with him..then dont get all worked up about the past =P
2006-09-20 20:58:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grl if it happened before yall met let it go bringing it up will only cause trouble.
2006-09-20 21:01:52 · answer #8 · answered by Sketch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have double standards for his and her behaviour?
Oh yeah.....you're 13! *sigh* Dump him, and don't date again until you're grown up a bit more.
2006-09-21 04:03:39 · answer #9 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he cheated on you than dump him because he was a fool that was just crazy so dump him hope i could help bye
2006-09-20 20:59:21 · answer #10 · answered by bstump190 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let it go...past is past... look at the present, do you love him? does he love you? That's all you need to know in order to decide... listen to your heart and let it guide you.
2006-09-20 21:07:39 · answer #11 · answered by ?T?T?? (leticia_chatre) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋