My husband and I have a myspace account and when we go to browse for people what the other typed in before is still there on our computer.
A couple months ago I saw that he had been searching for gay men in our area, and this morning I noticed that he's been searching for young, single women in our area. I bring this up with him and he says it's nothing. I think that he must be looking for someone else if he's doing that. Maybe he isn't happy with me anymore. I'm wondering what other people think of this? Is he telling the truth or is he really looking for something better?
2006-09-20 13:49:24 · 34 answers · asked by Carrie! 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First of all, you are HOT!!!
Don't fault him for looking.
Slide next to him in bed with a tube of Astroglide and a penis shaped vibrator, and go to work.
You both will have fun!
2006-09-20 18:07:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOPS !!! my fingers just slipped and I typed in searching for gay men and young single women...if you believe your husbands lies--- the pain you'll feel when the **** hits the fan down the road is partially your fault. Read the writing on the wall. Of course you believe him it would hurt like hell to realize you're married to a bi=sexual who can possibly bring home some infectious disease to you his lovely innocent, gullible bride. WAKE UP and smell the coffee. It's now or later ...sooner or later you'll have to deal with the reality that you found on the computer! It's not a question that you aren't good enough for him.. ask your self this: do you want to stay with a gay man , who also looks for innocent younger women to "F"? Don't ignore the facts...trust your instinct bail now before it gets worse...Your husband doesn't have the balls to tell you the truth. Instead he'll show you his true colors every time he slips up and then tells you some cock a mammy story to cover his tracks...
2006-09-20 14:58:54 · answer #2 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be questioning him as to why he needs to look in these sections, sure it may be just looking, but I think you really need to ask why he's doing it. What does he care how many single women are on the site?? Personally I think he may be up to no good. I would ask him how he would feel if he found you were searching for single guys on Myspace.?? Bet he wouldn't like it!
I don't like to encourage checking up on him, but I'd go to your History bar and have a look at the pages he's been to. If there's none then he's probably erased them which shows deception.
2006-09-20 13:58:37 · answer #3 · answered by kmlloveplant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a 50/50 cause he truly could be telling the truth or lying but I personally would be suspicious that the fact that he has an interest in single girls and he is married. All I can say is keep your eyes open and pay attention to the details of what he says and does now
2006-09-20 13:54:28 · answer #4 · answered by amb1964 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it doesnt mean he's searching, just means u need to keep a closer eye to be on the safe side.. men are stupid at times and the reasons they do things make absolutely no sense to us.. half of they time they are going on pure curiousity rather then actually "looking" for something.. although it sucks not being a mind reader.. u know ur husband u know how he treats u , u know how he thinks.. so u need to ask your heart if u think he'd ever do something like what ur thinking to u or is it just him being stupid and looking at stupid crap.... but untill u actually see something to worry about i wouldnt worry to hard at this point but just be aware of whats going on , dont turn a blind eye.. but dont worry till theres something ligit to worry about.. as im sure there have been times u've drifted onto different peoples web pages as well and it meant nothing to u .. so stay calm.. and just keep ur eyes open.. but ur heart should know the truth.. just search for it.. the mind can play horrible tricks on u.. so dont listen to ur brain, listen to ur heart..
2006-09-20 14:16:31 · answer #5 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it's human nature to be curious. don;t you search Myspace also?
instead of being confrontational have you invited him to be open and honest ( and NON_JUDGEMENTAL) when he shares his thoughts. maybe he is thinking on one of the sexual fantasies you mentioned day's or even years ago and just trying to work up the guts to actually try it. or its some one else looking altogether. do you have any children?
all I'm saying is be patient until you have (FACTS) then you can make choices based on those and not opinion, suspecion and guesses.
God Bless
OH FYI try reading
His needs, Her needs. By Willard harley jr.
2006-09-20 13:58:39 · answer #6 · answered by Sully 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The man must be a Dolt! If thats you--why would he be looking elsewhere!???
He must be bored or not feeling his needs are being fulfilled-to be looking for both males and females....Keep a sharp eye out on this-cuz were there is smoke-the fire ain't far behind!
Best of luck to you on this!
2006-09-20 13:53:12 · answer #7 · answered by f4fanactic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds a little gay. Keep a eye on him. Looked at your 360. Makes me wish i was 20 and know then what i know now. I hope his door doesn't swing both ways. If it does' You got a problem.
2006-09-20 14:10:26 · answer #8 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think young couples are incomprehensible. As if you can't just be honest with each other ... but I suppose that takes perspective, which takes time.
I suggest you believe your husband. It means nothing to look around at other people.
2006-09-20 13:52:52 · answer #9 · answered by Neodiogenes 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's looking for other people, but does he have gay tendencies or what? That would worry me. But i would cut him offf that computer with a quickness, for sure, or tell him to get lost because thats as good as cheating, and doing it right in front of you.
2006-09-20 13:53:41 · answer #10 · answered by aswingerof2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is just looking at their pages. Reading what other people have sent them. If he has not cheated and you guy are still good together then I say give him the benefit of the doubt. If not then confront him
2006-09-20 13:52:25 · answer #11 · answered by jagbeeton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋