can't keep his hands off HIMSELF during sex? He doesn't really touch me - I'm always touching him....I try to move his hands from himself and over to me, but it always ends up right back on himself! WHAT THE HELL?
2006-09-20 13:43:16 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hes not gay - never masturbates, and doesn't watch porn. I KNOW he leaves the door open all the time and he always falls asleep before I do!
2006-09-20 14:08:26 · update #1
I really dont understand why he does that but I will say I think you really need to express how it is making you feel. I would feel some type of way if my man wouldnt touch me while we were making love. I mean does he want to be with you or does he want to be with himself? He needs to show you more attention durning sex & tell him if he wants to be touched you will do the touching on him!! Good luck sweetie!
2006-09-20 13:52:52 · answer #1 · answered by cynthia b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is misleading; you are indicating that he masturbates "can't keep his hands off HIMSELF" - what else does that phrase infer? Now, everyone is giving you the "wrong" answer. Please be more specific!!
My Original Answer: Wow! Does he have a problem w/masturbation!
He needs some serious counseling and it's on a level outside of someone who loves him and is trying to show him the right way (you).
There are books on this subject; being addicted to masturbation.
Read them first for yourself, then see if your boyfriend is open to learning about this condition and it's consequences. Good luck to you both!
2006-09-20 13:45:27 · answer #2 · answered by YRofTexas 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's strange for sure. Is he trying to cover and hide himself or playing with himself? If the former he sounds very immature or exceedingly self conscience which likely has its roots in upbringing (religion or abuse?). If the later is he narcisstic? Any hint or history of homosexuality? Not wanting to be touching you for whatever reason is not a good sign for your relationship. I'd suggest you find the answer to this before getting to serious.
2006-09-20 13:51:08 · answer #3 · answered by gatzap 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he's a total selfish lover... He knows what works on himself and just wants to make sure he's enjoying the sex. Maybe ask him what he would like you to do... that should free up his hands to play with you. If he doesn't change, then he might never.
2006-09-20 13:46:17 · answer #4 · answered by Mommy2Liam 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ummmmm not sure theres something wrong with him , or if he just likes the sensation of being touched so much that he even uses his own hands.. i wouldnt say this is a Major deal.. more so then probably a bad habit..
2006-09-20 14:20:17 · answer #5 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always is not good.
A woman would actually have to pry my hands off of her.
He's has issues connecting and enjoying you as part of the sexual experience. That's deep. Sounds like a chronic masturbator.
Good luck on that one.
2006-09-20 13:56:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep ur bra and panties on and tell him he can't touch u. if he can't keep his hands of himself, then start touching urself that will make him really horny, and slap his hand if he trys to touch u until he goes crazy for u. or try orderign him around a little, i love when my boyfriend demands me to do things to him. tie him up and sit on his face!
~ ♥ len
2006-09-20 13:51:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is definitely something wrong with this guy ,,, he must have all his attention to you and your body , to satisfy your needs , he is so selfish en just care about himself.
this man can not have a good sex with you. Lots of men are like this . Unlucky are we,women!
2006-09-20 13:47:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's just a fetish - look at what he touches and do the same with his or your hand on his while he is touching him with your hands
2006-09-20 13:46:22 · answer #9 · answered by logiegt5 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is a little weird. sounds like he had gotten into the habit of self-pleasuring too much or something, and turned himself into a self-focused lover.
2006-09-20 13:45:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋