i am pregnet and my boyfriend beets me all the time so what should i do i will not get rid of the baby cause i dont beleve in aborstion's that is so not right i mean he kicks me and punches me all the time what should i do give up?????
2006-09-20 13:41:48 · 22 answers · asked by lil kay 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
princess you need to leave to loser. you don't a man that hit you.. please keep the baby.. getting a abortion is a big sin. here my email address if you need a friend efrain78223@yahoo.com . take care..
2006-09-20 13:49:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all the next time he lays a hand on you call the police. If you have any respect for yourself or love that baby you are carrying then you will leave.I grew up up in a abusive home.I'm now the mother of 2 awesome kids.The beatings will not only be towards you but one day towards your child.
2006-09-20 13:47:59 · answer #2 · answered by ang3lzfir3_99 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please step out of your little circle and look from the outside looking in. If you had a friend whose boyfriend beat her , would you tell her to give up and let him hit her 'till his heart is content? Of course not !!!!! This is what you do............
You tell yourself that you need and deserve to be treated with love , respect and dignity. You then find a police station and report it. Then you find somewhere else you can live if he wont leave your house. (unless it's your house then have him leave, you might need the police there to escort him out) After that you find yourself a counseling group in your area or you can get counseling for yourself only. You build your self-esteem, and believe in yourself. You have the baby and love it eternally. You want to live first for yourself and then for your child. Only YOU can change YOUR life, YOU need to make the decision to move forward and not look back. Please know that you are not the only one in this world going through this or that has gone through this. Get yourself a support system with a friend or family member, it could be another person that has gone through domestic abuse and has taken themselves away from the situation. I will pray for you and your baby. Peace and Love your way. +
http://www.ndvh.org/
1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
Please make that call, regain your dignity, be strong.
2006-09-20 13:58:59 · answer #3 · answered by wonderwoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would leave his ***. if he is beating you while u are pregnant then he could seriously hurt your unborn baby if not kill the baby and seriously hurt u aswell.
dont put your baby through abuse like that.
if u leave him you have the chance to look after your self and the baby in safety.
i grew up in a family where my parents were constantly in fist fights and sometimes by accident i would get in the way and get hurt my self. i know just how scared a young child gets seeing violence in their home and it's not good for the child.
so my advice is leave him and let him have visitation to the child as long as there is someone there with him who u can trust.
i know it doesnt sound that nice but your childs safety ( not to mention your own) is whats most important.
how would u feel when ur baby is born, if he/she has permanant problems due to the violence of your bofriend. please u have the chance now to save your baby from harm. just leave.
2006-09-20 13:50:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any family or friends you can go to right away to get away from him? He will either end up giving you a miscarriage or seriously hurting/killing you. Do you think he will treat the baby any better? From experience I can tell you he won't. You need to get out, now! Call your local police, child family services, your local hospital may help...anyone who will listen! I wish you the best and may god bless you and baby.
2006-09-20 13:47:59 · answer #5 · answered by **KELLEY** 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope this is not a real ????
Because if you have to ask, I pitty this Poor unborn child.
GET THE HELL OUT OF THERE NOW.
Go to the hospital, or to the police.
They can put you in touch with agencies to help you find
housing,and get out of this horrible situation.
If all else fails, Kill the son of a *****, and I think the jury will have sympathy for you.
2006-09-20 13:51:21 · answer #6 · answered by stoned Midget 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-12 11:59:00 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please leave him before he hurts you and your baby more! Its not worth your time and life to stay with someone who is abusive in anyway! (I know that so well because I've been the abusive relationship!) You and your baby deserve better!! There are lots of local services you can get a help with the situation you are in. Go talk to them and get more professional information. (child support etc.)
2006-09-20 13:49:05 · answer #8 · answered by sunflower222 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everytime this guy hits you he's laughing at you ... cuz YOURE LETTING HIM HIT YOU. Not just you, but the baby. Tell me why should this guy be able to hit you while youre pregnant and you just sit back & let it happen? Cuz you love him? Cuz youre use to him? You really need to file a report on him. Youre gonna hate yourself later if you dont.
2006-09-20 14:03:00 · answer #9 · answered by Maria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you are out without him go to the police and file a report.
2006-09-20 13:56:40 · answer #10 · answered by spoiled_punkprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get away from him first of all. If you don't he may cause you to loose the baby. If you do not want the baby then you can give it up for adoption at any hospital. But first priority get the heck away from that jerk!!
2006-09-20 13:45:03 · answer #11 · answered by sr22racing 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋