I'm Italian and I did the same question in the Italian forum, but I'd like some advices from different mentality...
From different years I have a relationship with a girl that I love, but some time ago I started to have purely sexual imaginations of omosex type. I try to remove this necessity using the head, but the body doesn't want to know of it. I premise that they are only imaginations and nothing of concrete, but time after time this situation will make me crazy! Has someone had experiences like this? Have you some suggestion to give me?
2006-09-20 13:40:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well...I can tell you from experience that you're going to be just fine. If you feel that this is something that you may want to act upon, I urge you to explore this possibility. If you don't then you may always wonder about it. I'm not saying to "go out there and be gay" because you clearly aren't ready for that. What I'm saying is to keep an open mind and explore your sexuality, it's the best thing for you right now because it will help you to relieve your anxieties.
I personally had to explore my own sexuality before I figured this all out, so I really know where you're coming from. I fantasize about girls but don't want an actual relationship with one. In fact I'm happily married to a man!
2006-09-20 13:53:11 · answer #1 · answered by MsLongBeach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I think most man will have this problems. It is the love of Lord Jesus, the reverence fear that prevent me from turning it into action. The best way is to put thoughts that from Jesus. You have a choice to choose, homo or heter. Although you may or not be Christian, I find this is the only way.
2006-09-20 21:20:47 · answer #2 · answered by sky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe most men have this feelings. i do suggest whenever the feelings appear, go get a phone and called you love one.
2006-09-20 20:45:25 · answer #3 · answered by luqman_hakim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this had become frequent, then maybe you should start exploring it. I think its either your bisexual or gay..sorry for being blunt but you wanted an honest opinion:)
2006-09-20 20:43:43 · answer #4 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋