What are true friends?

Question

My best friend keeps calling me weird and all those stuff that hurts my feeling. How do I let her know that I don't like it and make sure she shouldn't say that anymore.

Answer 1

You should tell her straight out that she is hurting your feeling!
If she is your true best friend, she will respect your feelings and stop calling you all those mean things! Also, ask her how would she feel if she were to be in position.

Answer 2

Only one way: you got to talk to her honestly. You can't have a real friendship with someone who is hurting your feelings. That's not what friends do. And no matter what anybody says about you, you have to be proud of yourself enough to stand up for your rights. No one should call you names you don't like. But, it may be that she is not aware of how much this bothers you. So don't start off angry. Just say you want to talk to her because she has always been your friend. Tell her how it hurts you and ask her to help you feel better about it. If she is a friend, she will be all over that and never do this again.

Answer 3

True friends are someone you can always count on and trust and who will always stick by you no matter what you look like or act like..basically the people who'd be there for you even if you called them at 4 in the morning. If your bff is hurting your feelings, you should tell her that you dont like her comments about you. Usually the best way to tell her is to talk to her alone, not in front of other friends and just say it her. If you find it awkward or hard to say..well is she really a good friend then?

Answer 4

HONESTY is the best policy. Let her know how you're feeling and if she's your true friend, she'll understand and stop. If not, you're better off without her. There's a lot of people in this world that I'm sure would love to get to know you and be your friend. Don't let anyone put you down or hurt you in anyway!

Answer 5

i had a good friend that spoke to me, even in public, like i was the criminal who shot her cousin. these people, i think, are caught up in some sort of drugs. has to be. i said in the beginning, had, a friend, not anymore. you won't be able to find the right words, to ask this personality to not do this name calling thing. think about it, what words do you think will come out of your hole, that will inspire her so, that , she will be, oh, oh i am so sorry. no, that's not going to happen. few minutes saved, a whole lifetime of pain and embarrassment, let it go the other way from where ever you go, or you go right ahead and see if you can change her mouth...

Answer 6

A true friend is one that will do anything for you no matter the consequences, loan you money if your broke even if he or she can't really afford it, show up at the hospital if you end up there even if you didn't ask them to. someone who help you through thick and thin unconditionally. give you the shirt off their back if you needed it, give you their last bight of bread if you asked them for itbecause they know that you probably need it more than they do. A true friend would listen to you without judgment. If your friend is saying somthing to you that hurts your feelings, tell them it does. A true friend would understand and stop doing it. Otherwise they're not a true friend.

Answer 7

i can understand where your coming from
when i had this problem i didnt say anything and it got worse and worse and we have lost our friendship now.
tell her strat eout if she really is your YOUR TRUE BEST FRIEND/ TRUE FRIND
she should know what shes doing is hurting you
and mb she dosnt becuz they do it to everyone once or twice
but if it has come to a piont that its daily ask her strate up "Why r u doing this to me. if u dnt relize it hurts me "
but not all friends realize where they go rong and think ur the one being cold if u start ignorin her
with a big misunderstabding u both loose ur great friendship

the best wat is to strate up ask her and tel her how u feel
n tell her to stop


hope i can be some help
i completely understand what ur goin threw and i wish there was someone to help me out and tell me to tel her how i feel cuz she isnt phycic

Answer 8

True friends are the ones who care for you,never get jealous from you,always give you GOOD comments, want the best for you,never betray you,never talk behind your back,always by your side when u're down and need somebody to talk to and tell him ur feelings.
True friends are the ones who love you,ask about you,call you every single day,get jealous for you,dont forget you when they have a (boyfriend or girlfriend), always near you,always supporting you,always thanksgiving, especially when u're out of cash.
True friends are the ones who seek you everyday,check on you every single night,carry ur pain,try to solve your problems, try to make you better when u'r down,make a good image about you when they're out with other people.
True friends are like 2nd degree brothers or sisters.
3 conclusions: 1- A boy and a girl can never be true true friends.
2-Its really rare to find true friends these days ,especially these days,coz when u think that u have a real friend is when u get dissapointed to configure his false actions towards you.
3-turn to ur best friend and tell her that its really bothering you, try to be kind, coz every1 has a good side in him,so maybe she can understand that.IF she doesnt repeat it then she really likes you.In case she does,she's really jealous,and she isnt considered to be a TRUE friend.Dump her

Answer 9

Say "if you keep saying these things I don't wanna be friends with you.." I'm sorry""I really like you but ur hurting me"Ture friends have ur back 24 7 and don't hurt ur feelings

Answer 10

A true friend is someone who is always there for you, one who will tell you what you need to hear even if you don't want ot hear it. They are the people you can count on when all else fails. If this person is your friend she will understand that she is hurting you and will put a stop to it.