My sister is in 6th grade and she has a really ful chest. She hates it. Anyone help her out with how she feels uncomfortable?
2006-09-20 13:31:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
you know what, she sounds beautiful. i think the only way to help her feel more comfortable, is to raise her self esteem. and you as a sister are the number one candidate to do that! she developed earlier than other girls, but that's just her body, she should learn to love it. i know most boys are probably drooling over her because of her chest, and most girls are probably envious, but she just needs to learn to feel comfortable in her own skin. just remind her how much of a wonderful person she is, and that she's beautiful just the way she is. in a few years, other girls will catch up, and she won't even have remembered all this. i think a having a full chest is a blessing, and she should appreciate all she was blessed with. but if her chest is really huge, and causes her back pain and money isn't an issue, she can always consider breast reduction. but she is so young and she might regret that decision. just let her know she is beautiful just the way she is!
2006-09-20 13:36:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although i never had the problem my best friend did, it lead to back pain, stares, and a hard time finding support. Victoria Secret has a specialty section for hefty chests. Talking to a sales girl might find regular bras that offer excellent support. Further they have a line of sports bras that offer exceptionally comfortable support for full chests.
Another option could be to lose weight, If her doctor give her an okay to lose weight she will reduce the size of her chest. This is not advised if she is at a low-normal weight.
Thick strap tanks offer more coverage than spaghetti straps and are still as cute and comfortable. A tailored jacket can be good for diminishing a large chest and can look really cute paired with jeans and is good for work too.
If it because to cause pain or severe social problems she ay want to consider having a breast reduction. If this is a route she chooses she must have parental consent or wait until she is 18. The procedure can cost anywhere from 3,000 to 7,000 dollars. Generally, women find the result completely worth the price. Most plastic surgeons will offer financing, to make it easier to pay over time.
Be wary, in the US there is an epidemic of surgeons, doing cheap botched jobs, to protect yourself be sure the doctor is certified by US board of plastic surgeons. Ask for references and see his or her degrees.
Most of all, she should know she is beautiful regardless, many women would love large full breasts. She should not take any harassment about it.
Good luck
2006-09-20 14:01:56 · answer #2 · answered by Elle D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her she should feel lucky because all the girls with no chest would love to be her! i started getting a big chest when i was in 6th grade too and everyone always told me that they wish they had mine. so let her know that she should feel comfortable with her body and that shes should think shes beautiful the way she is. and tell her shell have everyone thinking shes lucky!
2006-09-20 13:43:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can buy sports bras and wear large shirts or t shirts because everyone I see now days in your age factor is big and loose clothes. If she feels ashamed to have such big breast now sister you can boost her ego by telling her she looks nice and a hug now and then doesn`t hurt neither! Good Luck to your sister!!!!
2006-09-20 13:41:12 · answer #4 · answered by Carol H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let her wear any tight shirts. It'll just make them look bigger. Try a sports bra. They help with flattening out your chest alot.
2006-09-20 13:40:42 · answer #5 · answered by Danielle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to wear pull up jackets,a sports bra and maybe some cute earings to get the attention away from her chest
2006-09-20 13:46:04 · answer #6 · answered by urbandecay174 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she shouldn't be uncomfortable with her body ever that's the way god made her and she should be proud when she older she may change her mind about them cuz really who wants to be flat?
2006-09-20 13:39:32 · answer #7 · answered by _ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I was her. I still have barely any chest.
2006-09-20 13:39:15 · answer #8 · answered by Awexis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im guessing a sports bra. my freind is really embarrased about her 34 Ds.
2006-09-20 13:48:42 · answer #9 · answered by jerseybabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has just gone thru puberty sooner than other girls. girls are probably jealous of her. the others will fill out sooner or later.
2006-09-20 13:41:34 · answer #10 · answered by zomplexi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋