I made a guy get surgery on his nose because I called him Big nose. He first played me then lead me on. I feel bad for him ahving to get surgery but he deserved it after what he did to me. Should i say I am sorry for being mean even though I had said sorry already?
2006-09-20 13:24:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Thinking back to my younger days as a teen.....guys generally don't think like that. We don't get all bundled up in our emotions.
You didn't make him do anything. He got surgery because he didn't like his nose. Maybe it was because he thought it prevented him from getting girls...who knows. But I seriously doubt he holds you responsible.
Don't give it another thought. You've already said you're sorry, if he is holding something against you, it won't matter if you say it again. Just treat him as you would want to be treated from now on.
2006-09-20 13:29:41 · answer #1 · answered by Uncle Pennybags 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well you are a brat--but so was I when I was your age.
You don't say what this guy did to you--but I am not sure that really matters.
what is important is this guy cares about you and is looking for your approval and more. My god--he got surgery for you.
I am certain you did not expect it to go that far. But what I think is, whether or not you care about him (and I kinda gather you don't much) you should make an effort to be nice to him--and that is more than just saying sorry or Hi once in a while.
But it is also important that you not lead him on if you don't care about him--but you can still be nice and be friends. If you do not care about him in a boyfriend sense you need to tell him that in a very CAREFUL way--but you must tell him.
I am wondering whether you might care about him a little. I am only reading this between the lines--if so go with it of course.
2006-09-20 20:52:00 · answer #2 · answered by beckychr007 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee, you've got a bit of an overrated view of your own importance, don't you?
Nobody gets surgery because you said so, but if you need to feel like you "made him", go ahead and apologise and make a fool of yourself.
2006-09-21 04:09:34 · answer #3 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no way you MADE him get surgery - that was his choice. But if you feel bad sit down with him and talk it out.
2006-09-20 21:10:03 · answer #4 · answered by puma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because u called him big nose doesnt mean u caused him to have surgery. he was probably already insecure about it. dont worry it probably didnt hve that much to do with u
2006-09-20 22:29:49 · answer #5 · answered by jordanthegrouch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't your fault. He got the surgery cause he wanted to, not because you made him. You can't make him do anything.
2006-09-20 20:33:33 · answer #6 · answered by spoiled_punkprincess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no way that you "made" him get surgery, unless you held a gun to his head through the procedure.
2006-09-20 20:27:56 · answer #7 · answered by Karen M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No you did the right thing already he deserved it so don't feel bad and if he doesn't say sorry back to you then he is mean and stupid.
2006-09-20 20:30:44 · answer #8 · answered by shabay24 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Look honey next time be careful when you say things that can hurt someones feelings,and by the way you did,t force him to do it.
2006-09-20 21:18:45 · answer #9 · answered by Mio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
exactly what the first guy said, i mean youll feel bad a while, but just tell him that you didnt mean it like in really harsh way
2006-09-20 20:30:46 · answer #10 · answered by Des'ree is how to spell my n 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋