I've been married for 6 years have two children 14 and 5 my husband has cheated and he often puts me and the children down.I know that he still talks with person on the phone.I have just tryed to leave but that did not work.
2006-09-20 13:22:59 · 23 answers · asked by Unique 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I hate to break it to you, but your marriage is already over. You need to get your kids out of there now!! Save them while you can from the harsh attacks this man is inflicting on them.
2006-09-20 13:27:57 · answer #1 · answered by fwog_fwog 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It either ends or continues, it's all up to you. Only you can decide what you want out of life and how happy you want or need to be. Someone once said you only go around once. Another said everything happens for a reason, which I believe. Dear Abby put it best when she said, "Ask yourself, would you be better off with or without him?" Only you can answer that question. Then decide and act on it. Good luck.
2006-09-21 05:35:40 · answer #2 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why didn't it work out when you tryed to leave ? First you have to want it to work ( leaving )... Being alone is not an easy road.... Change is not easy... You have to want better for yourself and your children.... If your husband is still talking with the other woman... Its over.... Deceide if you want to live like you are now... Or better your life... All it takes is making your mind up and doing it... Oh yes..... And working hard at making it.....
2006-09-20 14:04:44 · answer #3 · answered by levita45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said I have tried to leave but that did not work...why didn't it work? If you really want to end your marriage, it is within your power to do so. It may take some time but if you stay the course, you can free yourself from what sounds like a lousy relationship.
God bless you.
2006-09-20 15:03:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU did not really try -- because IF you did -- YOU would already be gone and NOT asking this question. GET UP, get yourself a SEPARATE Life (and if it means renting a storage locker, moving things out slowly over the next couple of weeks, then so be it -- just do IT!)
2006-09-20 14:47:41 · answer #5 · answered by sglmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean you tried to leave and he stopped you or you changed your mind? You should leave cause it doesn't seem like he want to be with you or the kids. And get everything u can in the divorce.
2006-09-20 13:30:49 · answer #6 · answered by m deal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When YOU decide in your heart that it's over, it will be over. Until you come to grips with that, you'll stay trapped in it until you and the children are worn down to absolutely nothing.
2006-09-20 13:32:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, its over. You are worth more than that. Do yourself and your kids a favor and leave. you deserve happiness and you dont need a man to validate you. Good luck!
2006-09-20 13:48:16 · answer #8 · answered by angeleyez 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hun from what you say, its OVER, serious! you and your Children dont need that looser,i'm sorry i just call a spade a spade, if there is nothing left then you need to find that one special person,who will fill all the VOIDS in you and your familys life.good luck hun
2006-09-20 13:31:49 · answer #9 · answered by rpoker 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My guideline would be if I can look at my spouse and really not care if they would die... I would then know it is over and time to move on and live a life that I dream of.
2006-09-20 13:36:27 · answer #10 · answered by Kitty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋