i was sent to training school and i wrote a letter to a girl i really like, i told her that i really cared about her and i wanted to go out with her,i was released and didnt mail the letter, i left it on my bed, in a sealed envelope with the adress written on it. When i got out she completely dogged me, she wont even speak to me at all, its because her mom turned her against me now she hates me. The letter is really embarrassing, are they going to send it? What do I do?I DID mean the things in the letter but now i dont anymore.
2006-09-20 13:13:11 · 14 answers · asked by rockandroll5556 2 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Listen Bro-
When you are in that setting (training school), your mind tends to become focused on what you want in the outside world, whatever you felt in there was proabably over dramatized. Some girls phreak out if they don't have the same feelings for you and use the attention as a stepping stone for thier own egos, if she doesn't want anything to do with you now, leave her be. Just keep being yourself and if its meant to be it will come to pass if not, move on as they say...There are PLENTY of fish in the sea. If you left the letter stamped, addressed, ready to go, you could proably be assured she got it, or maybe mom got ahold of it first, you never now. If you really want to know and its killing you, just confront her, tell her straight up, "did you get my letter?'. If she ignores you then you probably know the reason, just move on bro, its the best thing you can do, don't dwell on it YOUR YOUNG and something else will come along....trust me...
Chef Dave
2006-09-20 13:30:55 · answer #1 · answered by perfectionscatering 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, did you call the trade school and ask them if they found any mail in your room? Second, If they did send the letter, I would hope this girl feels guilty for dogging you they way she did.
Even if a girl changes her mind about someone, there is no excuse for treating them badly. If she is a quality person, I would hope she would call you or even write you back (even if she's living in the same town as you now) and tell you she appreciates your flattering letter, but she does not share the same feelings.
She may in fact suprise you and tell you she felt the same.
Mom's will dog any guy she feels her daughter is not "worthy of" to sway her in another direction.
Keep your chin up! If this girl says anything negative to you again, just leave her alone. YOU are better off knowing BEFORE you get involved with her that she's not for you after all.
2006-09-20 22:27:43 · answer #2 · answered by together420yrs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this point I would say it does not matter anymore either way.
If she asks you about it, explain that it was old and due to her behaviour it no long applies.
They probably wont send it tho. I think there is a law about that
good luck sugar
2006-09-21 00:08:12 · answer #3 · answered by Elle D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
~Dumb idea, but maybe you could grow up and live with it. What do you care what she or her mother think? She already dumped you. Sounds like the letter will give mom an excuse to say "I told you so". Might be a lesson or two there, don't you think?
2006-09-20 20:24:22 · answer #4 · answered by Oscar Himpflewitz 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just let it what happens happen. if they mail the letter, you'll know, because she'll probly ask u about it. if she likes you back, maybe you should too. if you dont want to like her back at all, then just forget her!!
ps. thats so sweet to send her a letter!! =]
2006-09-20 20:16:55 · answer #5 · answered by missmunky_zo3 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if and when she gets the letter she will start to like you again.
2006-09-20 20:16:54 · answer #6 · answered by SJohnson 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If or when she receives the letter she WILL be sorry.....it is up 2 you then to decide....
One persons loss is someone Else's gain!
2006-09-21 16:40:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really cared for you a mom would not effect in here decision to dog you. Sounds to me there is another guy in her life.
2006-09-20 22:38:56 · answer #8 · answered by Grandpa Shark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the school if they found the letter and if you can pick it up.
They may not have mailed it at all.
2006-09-20 23:15:06 · answer #9 · answered by Susanne and Steven 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't mean whats in the letter don't send it but if u do send it and maybe she'll come back to u
2006-09-20 21:12:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋