I when out with this boy for 2 and 1/2 years. I was happy but then one day my ex came back.Well my ex start s**t with my boyfriend. That night my boyfriend told me it was over b/c of my ex.I told him I love him not my ex. He didn't want any drama. I move out. Now its been 1year and 7mths later we still are friends. we talk once in awhile. But I miss him so much. He was the love of my life. Should I try to get back with him or just try to move on? I just can't get him out of my head. What should I do?
2006-09-20 13:10:25 · 6 answers · asked by crazyblondetiffany2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well first of all he was wrong for breaking up with especially if you two were together for 2 years. My question is did you know the ex boyfriend would come back and start with him?If not, then you should have explained to the boyfriend that it's you and him not the ex. Cause i was in this situation once, my girl friend's ex was a big jerk and he kept trying to bother her. I talked to her about it, but she said ignore him, it's me and you now. But he wouldn't quite and one day i put him in his place and let him know where i stand as man. Yes it was drama but I didn't walk away form us. Which in term you boyfriend shouldn't. Maybe the two of you should talk about the situation. Since you say you all are friends and talk. It's hard to let go someone you love and he should understand that. Do I think you should try to get back with him, yes and no. Yes because you can't replace the love you had and just maybe he'll understand. No because If he isn;t there with you on the decision or just don't want ot be with you, don't Chase him, you are a woman, No woman should chase a man. If he's not trying to get on your level move on and be careful of the next guy. My heart really goes out to you and I hope you make the right choice and I hope he does cause he will never find a woman like you, remember that, peace, Cool Joe
2006-09-20 13:24:58 · answer #1 · answered by Cool Joe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my advice would be to at one point come direct with him, straight forward and tell him how you feel also something that will help is to boost him up by comparing him to your ex and making him seem very superior over your ex. then give him some days without contact to think about it, like 3 or 4 days. X that out if he calls you. then see how he responds and then thats how you know if you need to get back with one another or call it quits be strong and move on.
2006-09-20 13:18:07 · answer #2 · answered by Dialond D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time will tell what is going to happen. It could be that he was just looking for an excuse to call it quits. Or maybe after enough time he will see that you still have no feelings for your ex and he will come to his senses. Give it time. I guess it would not hurt to ask him to give it a second go.
2006-09-20 13:14:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try showing him that your ex is out of your life...and MEAN it. Don't talk to your ex, don't say hi, don't try to be friendly with him, get a restraining order if necessary.
2006-09-20 13:14:50 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun its thjis simple. you need to grow some b---- and go up to the (x) let him know how you feel,that hes on your mind 24/7 365 and tell the current Jurk your with you dont Love him anymore, if He really cares about you and how you feel, he'll let you go just to see that your happy. let me know how it turns out good luck hun
2006-09-20 13:15:29 · answer #5 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to MOVE ON for your own sake, no if's no but's....you'll be much better off and happier and the right guy will come along, you'll see.
2006-09-20 13:15:49 · answer #6 · answered by apleasure2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋