I'm a very nice nerdy guy who never swear and always get pushed around by others. I fear that my I won't do well outside of school because of this. How should I stand up??
2006-09-20 12:49:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Sociology
I was that way too, so do what i did
When people tell you something just be comletley honest and tell them how you feel.
For exaple me and my cousin used to work for the same company my work started at 10 but when she needed to go there early I always gave her a ride, so when I got tired of countless favors that i did for her and NEVER got a thank you
and people telling me I was way too nice to her I decided to be honest and tell her I'm not going to do what ever you want If you need something you need to ASK If I can do it for you or let you borrow my car. So sence than every thing stoped If she needed something she was nice to me and if I could not do it i would tell her I can't.
I think this is wat you need to do DON'T let any one push you arrownd. and tell them how you feel And most important be firm and strong about the way you talk bak to who ever does it to you.
2006-09-20 13:47:17 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will do better outside of school than in. Employers don't tolerate bad behavior as much as schools do.
That said, you should take karate. It's good for you mentally and physically.
2006-09-20 12:53:47 · answer #2 · answered by Automation Wizard 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
overlook approximately those people and purely pass on inclusive of your life and overlook approximately those none significant people. or you could take some instructions in case you're able to arise for your self. btw some persons are purely like that
2016-10-01 04:51:37 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-20 12:55:43 · answer #4 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
theres only one way to go. ur gona have to show evry one that they cant jus push u around. u might have to kick someones ***. pick sum 1 smaller
2006-09-20 15:31:32 · answer #5 · answered by jp_todd@swbell.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act crazy,insane crazy
people push you around bcuz your predictable
who knows what a crazy person will do
2006-09-20 12:58:31 · answer #6 · answered by Daniel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perfer et obdura; dolor hic tibi proderit olim.
...translation: Be patient and tough; some day this pain will be useful to you.
-ovid
2006-09-20 13:40:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
~You don't. You consider the source and walk away from it. Then, at your 10th reunion, you laugh at the bullies with there nowhere lives.
2006-09-20 12:52:24 · answer #8 · answered by Oscar Himpflewitz 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honor your Self of who and what you are.
2006-09-20 13:36:39 · answer #9 · answered by aldiaz2wheare 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they push you, push back. If they hit you, hit back.
2006-09-20 13:04:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋