I have been off the pill since February and wanting to get pregnant. How long should I wait before I go see a specialist?
My fear is... it could be something that can be fixed easy and I have been going through all these months of frustration for something I could have taken care of.
2006-09-20 12:45:17 · 45 answers · asked by kctruckdeals 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Most experts I've heard reccomend 'trying' for a year before looking for help.
Also I've heard that if you'd been on the pill for at least 1 yr that it somehow makes it that much more difficult to get pregant when you are ready. (I'm not sure how true that one is - it's just what I've heard)
2006-09-22 08:52:21 · answer #1 · answered by helpme1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from experience, you are not considered medically infertile until you've been actively trying to conceive for a year or more. When I had my first consult with my infertility doctor (I hate using that term; so negative), that was the first thing she asked me. If you've been off the pill since February, it would be way too soon. You can still make an appointment just to make sure, but I don't think they'll put you on any cycles or anything like that just yet.
If you're really wanting to try and you have a regular cycle, buy an ovulation kit (keep in mind that this is only accurate if you have a regular cycle). My doctor put me on medication to regulate my cycle and advised me to buy an ovulation kit. When I took each test, it would give me a false positive result. When your test shows that you are ovulating, have intercourse two consecutive days and every other day for a week after that. You have a better chance at getting pregnant.
I was going through fertility treatments all last year and the doc put me on a pill (clomid) for 3 cycles and when that didn't work, I was on injectables and had 2 inseminations. All were unsuccessful. :( We decided to take a break this year and now I'm 20 weeks pregnant! So, don't worry! I was diagnosed with a bunch of things and was told that getting pregnant on my own was a real crap shoot.
Good luck!!!
2006-09-20 13:06:50 · answer #2 · answered by JoesWifee 3 · 7⤊ 0⤋
If you have insurance and can afford it I think I would go right away and see a specialist. I know how it feels to want a child and not be able to get pregnant. I had endometreocis (I'm no sure if that's spelled right)and it was hard for me.But I have a beautiful, smart 20yr. old daughter with a great career and about to be married to a wonderful man with such a bright future.I'm wondering if you havechecked to make sure this problem isn't your husbands/boyfriends? It may not have anything to do with your body. Another thing you might want to think about is anxiety. Sometimes frustration itself can keep you from becoming pregnant so you might want to talk with your own "ob/gyn" because it could be just as simple as nerves darl'in. I wish you well and pregnant very soon and I hope you will email me and let me know when the big day will be! You're in my prayers sweetheart and may God bless you greatly!@-}-}-------
2006-09-21 19:31:16 · answer #3 · answered by countrygirl7361 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know dear lady, that it takes two to tango. Are you sure that it is you who are infertile. Some times it takes a long time to get pregnant. Has your husband had a "Sperm Check". If you are sure that it is you and not your husband that is infertile, then you should give it a few months more.
Remember; Those drugs can cause multiple births, are you sure you want to to have twins or more.
Good Luck to you, I know you must really be frustrated, but sometimes, things have to happen at their own time. It is very likely that there is nothing wrong with you at all. Try for the child, when your temperature goes up, that is when you are most fertile. Also, it may be mental and not physical. These are things you must think about.
2006-09-22 07:09:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand completely, I was in the same position. I'm 33 and I didn't want to wait any longer. My doctor did find out I had hypothyroidism which is easily treated with medication and a couple months later I was pregnant. It's just a blood test that can done by any doctor that might at least give you some hope.
I was also on the pill and it took me about 2 years before I had regular periods again, so I think it does take awhile for your cycle to get back to normal.
Good luck
2006-09-20 13:46:46 · answer #5 · answered by Freak 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Generally, it isn't considered a problem until a year or so has passed; but there would probably be no harm in getting whatever check-up you might be able to get to make sure all is well.
Rather than a fertility specialist, you may want to just see a "basic" gynecologist if you haven't seen one recently.
If you biological clock is a factor you may to call and ask that question to someone in the fertility specialist's office. If you're on the younger side you can afford to wait, and you're less likely to have any issues.
2006-09-21 11:57:33 · answer #6 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should wait at least a year from the time you get off the pill before you see a specialist.
2006-09-22 00:58:08 · answer #7 · answered by Daniel M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make the appointment right now. I consulted a fertility specialist after 6 months of ttc. It took another FULL YEAR after that to get pregnant. The tests themselves can take months. You have to wait for the right 'time of month'. If you do go on clomid, they have to scan your ovaries for cysts. If there is a cyst, they wait another month (cysts come and go w/every cycle). Some people suggested going right to your OB/GYN. They may perscribe the clomid, but are probably not as thorough as fertility clinics. Pros and Cons. At the time I had excellent insurance that covered infertility diagnosis and treatment. I think the fertility specialist realized that and had me go through every test known to man. Finally after 18months with the guy I demanded the clomid. Guess what? First time I tried it:PREGNANT. My friend skipped the fertility clinic, asked her OB/GYN for a script after six months of trying to conceive and BAM, she was pregnant. One thing I should mention, we were both 26 when we conceived. The older you are the harder it is. I had my first baby at 27, thinking it would be difficult, we started working on our second child when the first was only 8 months old. First try I was pregnant with baby #2 who was born when I was 28. Eight months after that my husband looked at me cross-eyed and I was pregnant with baby #3, born when I was 29. We named our third girl in three years, The End.
2006-09-21 13:01:34 · answer #8 · answered by beccabeccaboo02 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most doctors recommend that you wait 3 months after you stop taking the pill to start ttc. This gives your uterus time to thicken and prepare for a pregnancy. So that means you have been ready since May - 4 months. If you are over 35, then you should wait until you have been trying for six months. If you are under 35, then you wait one year. Try to stick it out and start charting your cycle for ovulation.
I know it can be anxious. And I agree that knowing what the problem is can make dealing with months of periods easier. My husband and I have been trying for over 3 years. We went to the specialist after one year and it took them 7 months to diagnose me. But knowing has made the journey easier. Keep your chin up and Good Luck!!!
2006-09-21 04:28:45 · answer #9 · answered by KC 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am an MD. The usual waiting time is one year of trying. BCP's can take up to 1 year to wear off. The answer to your question depends on how old you are. If you are over 35, and especially if you are over ~37, you need to get to the doctor immediately. Every month you delay is critical if you are approaching the end of your natural fertility, especially if you want more than one baby.
A little Clomed or clomephene may be all you need. I don't think it would hurt to discuss this with your OB-GYN.
2006-09-21 11:01:53 · answer #10 · answered by Sciencenut 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
they say women who are under 40 should wait two years. If it makes you feel any better I've been trying for almost 2 years for a second child with no luck. I stopped taking the pill in Dec 04 and I'm just now in the last few months are starting to see the effects of being off the pill. As in heavier flow, worsening cramps. Just hang in there, you can try getting a basal temperature thermometer for some help or buy a home ovulation predictor kit. Good luck!
2006-09-21 09:50:23 · answer #11 · answered by tk_9702 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋