2006-09-20 12:41:42 · 30 answers · asked by bwlobo 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You didn't state what else was said. My husband said the same thing to me several years ago when I was pregnant with our son. He looked at me one day and said "I don't love you anymore and I won't divorce you because I don't want to pay child support." I was just floored and so hurt I didn't know what to do. I was a stay at home mom at the time and worked only part time at night when he'd get off of work. I left him a few years later and it tore him apart. Now he pays $700.00 a month in child support.
Try talking and find out what the problem is to see if you can work it out. or if there is someone else. Sometimes the love comes back. See if counseling will work and try to do somethings different to get out of a rut. Communication is the best way to understand each other. You each saw something in each other once. to get where your at now. Maybe you can try to bring that out again..
2006-09-20 13:16:00 · answer #1 · answered by miste19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess the first thing would be to try and find out why they are feeling that way. What have you done or not done that changed there feelings for you. Try and work through it but remember it takes TWO to make things work. If the other party is not willing to talk about it and try to work things out then I guess you have no choice than to leave. After all like others have said you can not make someone love you and there is no point in staying with someone if that is how they TRULY feel. Good luck
2006-09-20 20:02:46 · answer #2 · answered by oldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for marriage councelling, just a few sessions, and get the truth.The only thing worse is when a spouse says I still love you but I want a divorce..cause they are srtill lying even at the end.
2006-09-20 19:56:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your spouse tells you they don't love you, it will destroy you. Your world falls apart, your heart sinks to your feet, you feel useless, hurt,sad, pushed aside,you don't care to live, etc. This happened to me with my first marriage. But through it all over time I bounced back. If this fits you, never,never give up on life.
2006-09-20 22:42:13 · answer #4 · answered by mclamb63 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be grateful for the honesty, respect those feelings and move on amicabally. I believe people can fall out of love as easily as they fall into it, especially if life's events cause you to slowly drift apart until there's nothing left....
2006-09-21 12:45:05 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would fall apart. That's so sad to me when one spouse up and decides that he or she doesn't love their mate anymore.
2006-09-20 19:58:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any think ,may be murder him?
It's depend on my mood and the situation.
If my mind will work good at that time i will sign divorce papers and let him get out from my life and i will celebrate my free dome.
Or if my emotional will work hard at that time i may kill him self , because i lost most of the values in my life to live with him .
2006-09-20 19:44:01 · answer #7 · answered by mswathi1025 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you try to see if you can work things out! if your spouse does not want to work it out! leave!!!!
you cant make anyone love you!
2006-09-20 19:45:50 · answer #8 · answered by DUSTY 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might as well get a divorce. If he dosen't love you then he wouldn't care to hurt you, put you in dept, or use you.
Find someone who does love you and also love yourself.
2006-09-20 19:54:05 · answer #9 · answered by LayLay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them go and move on with your life. If they don't love you, don't think it will miraculously reappear. Even if you do things differently, life with them will not be the same as it once was.
2006-09-20 19:53:41 · answer #10 · answered by hljones1169 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋