She is a great girl, been engaged 3 times, and is the sweetest thing i have ever been with, the guys she was with before were asses..and shes pregnant, and she just asked if she should marry me, so should i marry her?
2006-09-20 12:28:51 · 12 answers · asked by Jamez 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you love her, you should marry her.
2006-09-20 12:30:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not one, not two, but three previous guys? I could see maybe one. But not three. These guys are asses huh? How do you know this? Did you talk to all three of them? Or is she telling you this? Are you sure they don't know something about her that you're not aware of? It's nice that she's so sweet. A politician sounds sweet -before the election.
But how much do you love her? Or, DO YOU LOVE HER?
And is this child yours? I'm presuming it's not. You don't say for certain. If not, you need to consider what the legal ramifications are concerning you, her and the child she is carrying. And are you willing to be the father of a child who is not biologically yours? She asking you about marriage should be a big red flag. You better wake up. You're not on a date here.
Frankly, I think she's looking for a quick fix.You are being "groomed" for instant fatherhood and all the legal and monetary support involved. Because once you are legally bound to her it will be very difficult to extricate yourself from this highly volatile situation. Then see how great she really is.
So should you marry her? I vote NO. Those three "asses" saw through her and they didn't buy it either.
2006-09-20 15:21:13 · answer #2 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope.
Pregnant women get scared, want their baby to have a last name and so forth. If you like her, stick with her until she has the kid. Then talk about the marriage. You can adopt the child and there won't be any deep family secret. Don't sleep with her while this is going down. It drops your marriage survival rate by 50%.
2006-09-20 12:35:43 · answer #3 · answered by Joe Cool 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there for her and after the baby is born and you still feel the same way then get engaged. Don't rush into marriage!
2006-09-20 12:32:23 · answer #4 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU LOVE HER AND IF THE BABY IS YOUR THEN MARRY HER IF NOT JUST B A GOOD FRIEND AND B THERE FOR HER AND WAIT
2006-09-20 17:26:05 · answer #5 · answered by Msdeb gee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what if she ran those guys off? to be married is a big step! is the baby yours?
2006-09-20 12:33:25 · answer #6 · answered by DUSTY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you love her and want to be her for the rest of your lives.
2006-09-20 12:34:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is the babii urs? and its not a decision to take lightly so weigh the pros n cons
2006-09-20 12:30:37 · answer #8 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't say yes because you think you have to , wait after the baby if you still want her say yes!!!!!
2006-09-20 12:34:31 · answer #9 · answered by kids4767 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are asking perfect strangers for an answer you are un sure and dont do it.
2006-09-20 13:43:44 · answer #10 · answered by nanny2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋