Okay, So when I have sex, I get this sharp pain inside. And i dont know if this is what it is for real or not, but it feels like someone is pushing up on my cervix until it hurts. Then afterwords, it hurts so bad that I can barely walk. And it will hurt so bad that I cant go to the bathroom (1 or 2) because any movement makes it hurt. Like it even hurts to walk. And its not because hes doing it too hard. it doesnt hurt if were really really ridiculously slow and gentle. Then its no fun for either of us. It almost feels like i have a huge a.ss bruise on my cervix. it hurts a little bit below where my tail bone is too. So i dont know if my cervix really IS gettting bruised, and is hurting me, or if its something else. I usually get cramps in my lower stomach, but not like period cramps. And it doesnt happen all the time, just sometimes. and i know i need to probably see a doctor, but i was just wondering if anyone else has the same problem, or knows the cause. Im 18 by the way.
2006-09-20 12:15:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
hey, i thought i was alone in the world. This happens to me too. I guess it's because of the size of your guy. My man's "you know what" is pretty big compared to average size and it goes in really deep. It just hits the walls of your cervix but it's nothing bad. He just has to get you to warm up and get more in the mood. You tend to relax more and enjoy it rather than worry about the pain. This happens to me too when i get on top, after a while, it stops hurting but believe me, i've had those horrible pains sometimes. We will be doing our business and then i'll get that pain right under my tailbone and it feels like i just feel on my but from really high up. I know how you feel. Just ask him to take it slow in the beggining and to help you warm up. spend more time on foreplay, trust me, it helps a ton. Good luck!
2006-09-20 12:23:19 · answer #1 · answered by MRS.S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i would say when i was your age i experienced the same problem and belivev me i was like you slow sex is boring. Have you tried changing positions does it hurt more on back , tummy, lying on you r side, doggy or in the swing? Explore the position and see which one hurts more and i am not saying keep going hurts a little change until it does not. If you have a willing partner see if they can put their fingers inside and see if they can feel an objust that feels like a semi hard penis with a very small hole in the end of it or more like s little debbi swiss roll. If it hurts the same wel when he touches it is your cervix( you can do the test your self u know) And if not make sure that you are properly liubed that can cause the problem as well. Good luck 21 female one kid and one on the way!!!
2006-09-20 12:30:17 · answer #2 · answered by drgonfly26sis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would probaly see the doctor if the pain is persistent. Some women do experience pain during intercourse, though it usually has nothing to do with their partner's size. If you have rough intercourse, or intercourse for a substantial period of time (more than 45 minutes.... and yes, that's substantial for most men!), then you can experience some discomfort in the area.
Some women have a tilted pelvis, which will cause them to experience some pain with sex. When I climax, my abdomen hurts A LOT because of the muscle contractions in my vag!na and in my abdomen.
Example... me and my hubby have a quickie and I feel fine. We had REAL sex last night and my abdomen (and womanhood) are in so much pain. I climaxed and did some crazy things.... won't go into details.... anyway, my body is going to hurt more because I did more.
Again, if the pain is persistent EVERY time you have sex, see a doctor. If you are embarassed about seeing a doctor, request a female OB/GYN specifically because a woman can relate to another woman a lot better than a man to a woman.
2006-09-20 12:24:00 · answer #3 · answered by Summer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this also when I was fairly young around 20 and it turned out that he was "too big" for where my uterus was positioned. My uterus became inflammed and I had to take a pain medication for a week. You may need to try different positions until you find one that works. What worked for me then has changed now that I have had a kid, and your whole reproductive system moves. Checking with your doctor is the only way to find out for sure, but try this until you are able to get an appointment.
2006-09-20 12:23:40 · answer #4 · answered by MADUKE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi I'm answering this question for my husband we went through the same thing and for a long time we couldn't figure out what was wrong for us it was a simple;e infection called bv nothing bad just over active hormones cause it talk with your doctor about getting checked out for it a simple pill can clear it up and make your sex life sooooo much better.
2006-09-20 12:23:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go to a GYN and have it looked at. There could be a reason your having this pain and there could alot of different reasons why. When I was younger I had those same types of pains and it turned out to be cervical cancer. The docs told me the reason was because I started having sex at such a young age. Trust me, get it looked at, it could be nothing but if you catch it early you will be better off. Good luck!
2006-09-20 12:21:29 · answer #6 · answered by BRITCOURT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to scare you but you really should see a doctor. I had a friend who told me of a similar pain (well, she didn't go into such detail as you have)... but, she went to see her gynecologist about this pain and she ended up with a rather large tumor on her uterus. She had to have it surgically removed. She is okay now -- and you will be, too. But, get to your doctor soon, okay? (If you don't have a doctor, or a OBGYN, try going to Planned Parenthood -- they're not simply for birth control. When I didn't have insurance, I would go to PP for my annual check ups and they were great.) Good luck.
2006-09-20 12:22:36 · answer #7 · answered by Shibi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be the form of a cyst. Your OBGYN will probably have you go to the lab to get a vaginal ultra sound and a regular ultra sound, to see if there are any irregularties showing up. You'll have to drink 24 oz of fluid and you can't pee, or else you can't take the vaginal ultrasound.
Keep in mind our bodies have cysts every month during our cycles, but they normally go away on their own. Please see your provider before it can turn into something serious.
Hope all is ok
2006-09-20 12:31:17 · answer #8 · answered by karen g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your cervix moves at different times during the month and this may be causing you pain during these times, try different positions when it hurts and go see your Dr. to make sure nothing more serious is wrong, good luck girl
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