and it's making me mad right now... ok.... there are these to girls at my school who likes my best friend(as a friend of course) and they don't like me...(the two girls).... my best friend is starting to hate them again...
the two girls are saying that my friend is telling them some of the things i say about them... i don't know why my friend is telling them almost everything that i say to her like a couple of things about the two girls.. i think she shouldn't being saying somethings to those girls about our relationship as friends... i don't even do that about her to other friends... first when this started, when the two girls wanted to become friends with her, she hung out with them a couple of times or atleast talked to them in class and said that i was being rude to my friend (the two girls had a talk), but before i had the talk with them i had called one of them a b**ch and a w**re.... and didn't really like her. last year i thought she called me a *****
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2006-09-20 12:11:09 · 4 answers · asked by Gothic Girl 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
but she had said that she was talking to her friend(the other girl) that was supposly behind me that i didn't know was there. i told them that i was sterotyping (which can be normal for ppl who don't have alot of friends and also high school girls) and didn't know any better. then i told them that i promise not to do it again... which i did.... they also told me that they r actually nice ppl.. for that's one reason why i stoped. i promised that i would give my friend some of the space she needs. which i had already have been told. now today i had gotten stoped by them while going to the bus. and they said that i still hated them (they said that my friend said this to them and almost all the stuff i had said) and saying that i said to my friend that she shouldn't be friend with them.which is a lie. my friend said that to me that she didn't want to be friends with them any more and she is calling the things that i said about them and also one of them to be an anerxic
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2006-09-20 12:18:19 · update #1
after one of the girls said what supposely what my friend said. i told them that it was a lie that she said that because i know what my friend had said about them... they didn't believe me because of how i was talking.... (i had kind of studdered) but i have a talking problem where my mind goes faster than my mouth so not everything comes out as it would be if someone else said it... i was going to tell them that i have a talking problem but i think they wouldn't beilve me... i have a feeling this would go on for a while... what should i do?... p.s. they also said that aren't really trying to split me and my friend up... and also we have reasons why we would hate them
ok... for the thing that one of u ppl said to tell my friend. i would try to do that and see what would happen... if it doesn't help. i'll come back to this to get feedback..
2006-09-20 12:24:17 · update #2
one more thing.... one of the girls thought i was cool last year too but i didn't know that until we had our little talk.... i think the thing that is happening to me and my friend is stupid... tomorrow my friend is going to talk to me about them... we also try to avoid them to see what would happen and see if they get the point that we don't want them to bother us... also we me and my friend are apart and they arent seeing her we have no problem...
2006-09-20 12:29:04 · update #3
hmmm,I've had this kind of problem too but it got solved in a week,you need to talk to your friend that if she always tell your secrets away,you'll never tell her anything but also,you have to try and be nicer to the two girls so that they get to like you,I know this is hard but I did it and now I moved to china but we still communicate together so please don't forget that making more friends is always better than losing your only friend
Bye,I hoped this helped you!!!
2006-09-20 12:16:25 · answer #1 · answered by Cecilia 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is one thing I have to say. You can trust people and tell them everything, but if you say something good about someone that is great, but always stay away from negative or critical comments on a person, because that can make it's way everywhere.
Not saying you said something bad, but then something obviously not good started from someone. Just carefully select what you say in teh future.
2006-09-20 12:13:55 · answer #2 · answered by DREENA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i heard enough to know it sounds pretty childlish but i do believe loose lips do sink ships and why she is sinking yours i don't know ? almost like she wants them to like her but not you. but on the other hand you said she didn't like them . so i would confront her and say why are you doing this?
2006-09-20 12:17:50 · answer #3 · answered by terri e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You all need to GROW UP!
2006-09-20 12:13:06 · answer #4 · answered by Mommy-of-Twins 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋