I hope to God not. Maybe I have to much faith and hope.
Or maybe I am just naive.
2006-09-20 12:11:01 · 18 answers · asked by midnitestar82 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Has he cheated? Yes? Then yes he will allways be a cheater. Once it is done then he is one, he may not ever do it again, but yeah.
2006-09-20 12:17:58 · answer #1 · answered by ღсяаՀу∙թіхіе∙ժմѕτღ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take in to consideration that people do change over time. If the "cheater" is a repeater, there might be other issues with that person than just cheating. I'm saying this because I was a cheater. In my case, I have an addiction to sex. I'm not a whore, but it did start out with porn. It is just like drugs. Porn can be your gateway drug that opens the door to more problems. First it's just fantasizing about things that you would like to do sexually. If not addressed or communicated with your spouse, it will lead to emotional separation in the relationship. If it continues, in my case it did, the fantasies will turn into reality. My relationship with my spouse started to suffer because of my addiction, the emotional and physical connection starts to fade, and I looked to fill my fantasies with another person who could fill my lust-full appetite. I was selfish, and because so I ruined a relationship with the only person I truly loved. I am happy to say I am changing my ways, because I love her.
If you had to ask this question- then you are a little naive. I hope that my situation helps to open you eyes to that not all cheaters will do it again. It really just breaks down to the person and the situation.
2006-09-20 12:40:43 · answer #2 · answered by saelskies 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the circumstances behind it make a difference, but I think if someone that supposedly loves you cheats on you, then they have a high chance of doing it again. They might not but the trust you once had will always be diminished in that person because you know that they have the capability of doing it again. I think you have to sit down and really look at all the circumstances behind it, like why it happened, who it was with etc. Trust your gut instincts, because if you stay in a relationship where you do not trust that person, your insecurities will get in the way in the long run anyway.
2006-09-20 12:22:35 · answer #3 · answered by having_a_blonde_day_lol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had cheated on someone once, but after he had some time to think about it, he wanted me back, but I couldn't go back because of the guilt I felt. When I found my husband and married him, I had never even thought about cheating. Mainly because I love him and I would never want to hurt him, and if someone is in love, they won't cheat. If they do and you are pretty sure it is happening again, most likely it is true. Unless you have a personal self confidence problem.
2006-09-20 12:18:32 · answer #4 · answered by butterfly_261 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it has to do with the underlying mentality. Actions are only expressions of our mentality. To me, choosing to be dishonest and not following up on your committments speaks of a certain mentality that is probably deep-seated, and would be hard to change. Yes, even the most responsible of us may forget to pay credit card bill on time once or twice; it doesn't follow that we're financially intept. But I believe that cheating is not "forgetting" to be committed - it involves conscious choice to lie ane be deceitful. And it points to a mindset that I think would be rather difficult to change.
2006-09-20 12:30:10 · answer #5 · answered by Sandy Ego 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It relies upon on the circumstances in contact, and the character of the guy. I did on my first spouse, yet could in no way even evaluate it with my 2d. I have been given out of school to marry my first spouse simply by fact she grew to become up pregnant, who i found out after our 2d baby replaced into born ( mutually as she swore she took her delivery administration pills ), had cheated on me and our first baby wasn't even mine. by the time our 0.33 baby replaced into born, ( additionally whilst on delivery administration....), she quickly after grew to become a raging jekyll/hyde alchoholic. mutually as no longer an excuse, it replaced into extremely reason adequate. in fact, I divorced her and stored the infants. I did Mr. mom for a 12 months, and married a astounding woman, whom i could in no way ever cheat on. factor being, that it extremely isn't any longer neccesarily authentic in all situations. someone can cheat, and nevertheless no longer be continuously a cheater.
2016-10-17 08:48:54 · answer #6 · answered by kreitzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has been my experience that people rarely change. It takes a REAL life-changing event to REALLY change someone.
I would never trust a cheater.
2006-09-20 12:16:12 · answer #7 · answered by RT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know...does the person want to change. it's hard to trust them when they've hurt you. you have to decide if you want to give them another chance is it worth it...and yes, i could happen again or not...but in being with that person your accepting taking that chance. hopefully i can say one day with confidence that cheaters can change and be true to themselves and you.
Goodluck and Godbless
2006-09-21 04:05:21 · answer #8 · answered by mrsgilleland 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i do not belive in that statement, my man cheated on me...we have been together 5 years and he cheated on me when we first got together, but I trust him now...it took a long time to trust him again, but I do........ people call me naive because i dont belive in that statement, but I trust him now...
2006-09-20 12:31:02 · answer #9 · answered by Kimmy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usully yes. But there are some people that cheat just that one time.
2006-09-20 12:15:30 · answer #10 · answered by cin_ann_43 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋