straight people fool around with the same sex and say that they are just "experimenting"?Would others consider them gay, even though they themselves say they are straight? Or can they really just be "experimenting", and be straight?
2006-09-20 12:06:40 · 20 answers · asked by BoMbS_aWaY 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I don't, but I know others do.
Everyone is free to experiment, it shouldn't have to define you just for experimenting.
I've experimented with drugs, that doens't make me a drug addict. I've experimented with fashion, I'm not a fashion victim.
Once or twice does not make a person gay or straight.
Heck, I married a man and had a kid, it didn't make me straight.
2006-09-20 18:30:19 · answer #1 · answered by DEATH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's just all about self interest. If someone wants to experiment "Bi curious" activity with the same sex, that's ok.
there is no really any reason to be mad if someone feels like experimenting. a lot of people does that.
I think gay men or lesbians might get mad if you try taking away the one they love. Or insult them.
2006-09-20 12:15:41 · answer #2 · answered by mystic_lonewolf22 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When people (straight girls) find out that i am gay (i am not your stereotypical gay) they usually get really interested and start flirting, i don't get mad i think its funny, if they want an experience who am i to say no lol.... Its just our culture these days to experiment everything. Anyways every gay girl wants a straight girl to ride their hand lol....
2006-09-20 14:15:54 · answer #3 · answered by *Aus*Surfer*Girl* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not call a one night stand a way of defining them as gay or bi I had a one night stand with a woman 13 years ago but I wish I could go back and undo it now and It makes me sick thinking about it I wish I had never done it now I would like to throw up every time i think about it yuck!!!!I don't get mad at any one for there chooses I just hope they know what they are in for down the road yes a one time encounter can not just make you gay or bi how stupid is that for instantance if you tired green beans to see if you liked them or not and pucked them up would you eat them again any way cause you most cause you tired them once boy oh boy if that is not the stupidest thing ever!!!!! get real LOL!!!! grow up!!!!
I just have thought of another way to put for the ppl with simple minds for them to simply understand
some ppl are allergic to some foods if you tired strawberries and found out you were allergic too them even if you loved them you would not eat them ( then it would be like you are in denial OK but say you try strawberries and you hate them you never have to eat them again but some one can't say you are in denial cause you must secretly love them you are just in denial Oh God help the stupid ppl in this world!!!
what I hate is when ppl try to say that we are in denial to justify there actions that is pathetic!!!
2006-09-21 03:30:54 · answer #4 · answered by mel416 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, I don't get mad. And who you have sex with does NOT determine your sexual orientation. You know, inside, whether you are gay or straight. A gay man can have sex with a woman all he wants..but he's still a gay man. I don't know why this is so hard to understand.
2006-09-20 12:15:09 · answer #5 · answered by The Tiki God 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I cant stand it when I go to a party and there are a bunch of hochy mama's making out to try and impress the boys.... They are such posers.... But if it were more of a personal thing between two women or men... I would think that would be experimenting....
2006-09-20 12:15:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't really care either way. If they want to call themselves straight, while experimenting, more power to them!!!
2006-09-20 15:48:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being gay , bi , or straight is based on what you perfer not what you have done. If a woman had sex with a man but hated it , It would not mean she is bisexual.
2006-09-20 15:23:01 · answer #8 · answered by noname 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people can experiment without being gay....whoever they end up falling in love with determines if they are gay or straight
2006-09-20 12:49:45 · answer #9 · answered by batman13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get men who tell me that they're straight but they'll constantly mess with men sexually and those men are to me are in denial if they don't think they're bisexual. I don't get mad, I feel that they should just try to call it what it is.
2006-09-20 12:16:56 · answer #10 · answered by What'd You Say? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋