do you think that guys who are into female domination are that way because they've got no "game"?

Question

Do you have any opinions on why so many guys seem to relish the idea of being humiliated (specifically) by a woman?

I'd seriously like to hear back from gays, bis, straights, etc.

thanks

Answer 1

Literally hundreds of books and articles have been written on this subject, and none of them have come to any kind of consensus. Ultimately Dom/sub play is a form of sexuality, like being gay, straight, or bi, and like those others it is probably as much inborn as anything else. People who are into can articulate what they get from it, but they speak for themselves not everyone. There are probably as many answers as there are people. Just as non-gays feel a need to say people are gay because they are pathetic losers, gays, while making a big deal about how they have a right to their own life style, then turn around and do the exact same thing to bis and subs. Am I the only who sees an element of hypocrisy here? As to having no game, submissive men outnumber Dominant women something like 90-1. With that kind of competition, I'd say the ones who get lucky got some KIND of game! The D/s community gets the same flack and discrimination from the straight world that we do, they don't need it from us as well.

Answer 2

Not sure, but this notion that nice guys finish last is true. The better you treat the hot girl the more they turn away, but this is simple psychology reading simple minds. Most hot girls get what they want all the time, why? Because they're hot, so they want a challenge, they go after the ****** alpha male who thinks he's the cocky shi*, but really all he is is a shallow dipshit who's just insecure about his own self image and it takes the stupid hot girl to realize after 5 or 8 years of serious dating to realize that its really the nice guy who is the MAN.

I may be nice, but just because I know how to treat a lady doesn't mean I couldn't beat the shi* out of your ****** boyfriend.

Again its an immaturity thing, of course, girls dont grow up now adays until 25 because they remain spoiled until they are out of college and on their own, Sorry didnt really answer the question but your theory of female domination and no game kinda irked me.

Answer 3

I am dominated by five mistresses. I have been a slave all of my life. My mother and aunt and grandmother has been the force in my life since I was 12 yrs old. Now I have a sister and cousin who are also my mistresses. Now it is a way of life not a game. They are all lesbians and all are extreme butches. I do as I am ordered to do. If not then it is punishment time. If I disrespect one I disrespect all and then I deserve to be punished. If I disobey one it is the same as diobeying all. I know that I am totaly dominated by my mistresses and I am not allowed to do anything without their permission. I don't know if this is the proper answer that you were looking for but this is who I am; a slave and NOT a submissive.

Answer 4

For me it's all about not having to be in control of anything. I work long hours, have a lot of responsibilities in my life, and have to be the "strong" person in my family (emotionally).

Submission to someone sexually is a way to balance the extreme control I have to exercise over myself in my daily life. In being dominated sexually, I have no worries that I may be making the wrong decisions, no fears that what I'm doing may hurt someone else, and no responsibilities that may effect the rest of someones life. I am totally subject to the whims of someone else's desire. I can find pleasure in pleasing that person simply for the sake of giving that person pleasure, no matter how small, how large, or how strange those pleasures may be.

By serving someones needs simply for their sake, I can give of myself as completely as I am able. I feel satisfaction in performing a simple task well. I am overjoyed at the completion of a difficult task. I feel proud at overcoming my own sexual demons. I become stronger when I conquer fears that are the final remnants of unwanted social baggage.

I am liberated in my service.

Answer 5

I don't know, but I know guys like to be the dominate one to show their manhood. Honestly I'm usually the dominate one

Answer 6

I Imagine it has something to do with their mothers, ask Freud.

Answer 7

It's about sexual pleasure and fantasy, there's no mystery about it.

Answer 8

i honestly think its a power thing! tell me what you think!!!

Answer 9

coz they are pathetic?