I am just recently married. My husband and I were virgins when we got married, so we don't have any prior experience with what to do -- This is an embarrassing question -- I just want to know what are you supposed to do with the semen in the vagina after intercourse? I have been running to the toilet to let the liquid come out because I don't want it to get all over the bed. Is this what other women typically do? I can't stand the feeling of wetness in the bed or in my clothes, so I don't see any other choice.
Thanks so much!
2006-09-20 12:02:29 · 18 answers · asked by Fari 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Same thing...my husband and I were virgins when we got married. We're still learning as we practice. I always have some baby wipies handy, just a quick wipe then go to the restroom afterwards. Make sure he cleans as well. Enjoy!
2006-09-20 12:07:31 · answer #1 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women keep a small towel next to them and simply slip it under after he moves away or goes to bathroom...Usually lovers hold each other and fall asleep that way If you want to do this just put the towel between legs...don't make a big deal about it...some men feel you don't love (all of them) if you are too freaked about their fluids...It is up to you If he uses a condom there is no wetness and the "problem" is his! do you want 2 get pregnant? If so... do not run to bathroom at all! In the morning toss towel in laundry...
2006-09-20 19:12:27 · answer #2 · answered by red heads ha! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL, yep, the age old question, stay and cudlle, and have to sleep in the wet spto, or get up and and run to the potty.
I personally run to the potty.
Other choices, are to have a towel on hand, and have hubby place it under you, make sure to grab two, because he will need one for leakage also.
OR just tet it go all over the bed.
FYI: if trying to get pregnant, either now or in the future, put a pillow covered with a towel under you and lay for 15 minutes, then get up.
AND, it is essential to pee in the 30 minutes following sex, to prevent urinary tract infections
2006-09-20 19:09:14 · answer #3 · answered by alissae02690 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WELCOME to married life and the old saying, " honey its your turn to sleep on the wet side!" Not at all like the movies, huh? Well, what works for us is to either have a bath towel under you or at least tissues within reach. He can plug the opening while you rush to the bathroom to clean up or lay there on the towel for it to ooze out.Which ever you prefer.
But for the final lesson: you could always sit on top, that way he gets the wet stuff! LIL
I've been married 22 years, trust me on this.
2006-09-20 19:09:07 · answer #4 · answered by pegasus 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Before having sex grab an old towel or a roll of toilet paper to wipe up the semen
2006-09-20 19:06:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After a great romp both of u can get in the shower and lengthen the experience and clean yourselves up in the process for the rest that doesnt get off or out use a pantyliner that way you save your clothes and sheets
2006-09-20 19:10:04 · answer #6 · answered by LiveLaughLove'12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations on your marriage....also on both of you being virgins. That's awesome.
You got it. Otherwise it's wet sheets. No one told me about that either my first time. Unless you want to put towels down beofre you...um, get started. But that kinda ruins the mood. LOL
2006-09-20 19:07:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep a towel on hand so you can catch the run afterward. but get up and clean yourself well after a while of bed cuddling. It's not the most pleasent smell to have lingering.
2006-09-20 19:07:32 · answer #8 · answered by MellyK1234 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I take a show after intercourse and make sure I am clean inside then I dry off
2006-09-20 19:06:26 · answer #9 · answered by Linda 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him to do the cleaning up for you. Just lie down on bed
2006-09-20 19:39:53 · answer #10 · answered by tellmetruth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋